Welcome to the 108th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“When the stars of your values and the currents of your actions align, serenity draws.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Talk to yourself once in a day, otherwise you may miss meeting an intelligent person in this world.” — Swami Vivekananda

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Setting Powerful Intentions

Intentions are like internal GPS signals—they quietly guide your thoughts, behaviours, and outcomes. In NLP, we know that where your attention goes, energy flows. So instead of starting your day reacting to life, why not design it with a clear, empowering intention?

It can be as simple as saying to yourself: “Today, I choose to show up with clarity and calm.” Feel it. Visualise what that looks like. Hear the tone you’d speak in. Let your body experience it.

Unlike goals, which are about the future, intentions bring your focus into the now. They create alignment between your thoughts, emotions, and actions—making your day more purposeful and less chaotic.

The beauty of NLP is that it reminds you: you’re not just drifting—you’re directing. So set your intention, step into it fully, and let it shape the way you lead, live, and connect.

You are invited to JOIN the next batch of NLP Practitioner Course by registering here: https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/nlp-practitioner

🔮 Meta Magic

Output or Outcome?

“Oh no, it’s leaking again!” said Commander Jake, annoyed, as drops of ink floated around inside the spaceship.

“Gravity really makes things harder,” said pilot Lisa, brushing away a blob of ink. “These pens just don’t work up here.”

Back on Earth, the team at NASA wasn’t happy.

Dr. Grant, the head scientist, stood in front of a board full of complex equations. “We are going to fix this,” he said. “I want a pen that writes in zero gravity, upside down, or even underwater if needed.”

“Why would we need to write underwater?” asked Dr. Mia.

“Because if we’re dreaming, we dream big,” he replied, dead serious.

A year later, after spending $70,000, NASA unveiled its masterpiece—the Space Pen 5000. Sleek. Shiny. Able to write anywhere, anytime, anyhow.

Meanwhile, halfway across the galaxy, a Russian astronaut named Sergei encountered the same crisis. His pen didn’t work in space either.

He looked at his crewmate, shrugged and said, “Pass me a pencil.”

Problem solved. Cost? Ten cents.

The lesson? Sometimes, it’s not about how advanced the solution is—it’s about clarity of the outcome.

So my question to you is — What do you choose — Output or Outcome?

📖 Hook from the Book

“The best way to persuade someone to talk is to stay quiet. People, when confronted with silence, feel the overwhelming urge to fill it with something.” — Clare Pooley, The People on Platform 5

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary.” This dialogue from the movie Dead Poets Society emphasizes the importance of being present and taking decisive action, living in the moment and intentionally crafting your future by embracing opportunities right now.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

When Your Belief Becomes Your Barrier

📢 Live Update of the Week

The Bangalore version of “THE BREAKTHROUGH” is currently in progress this weekend. In case you missed it, hop in for the Mumbai one right away.

https://w3coach.com/the-breakthrough/

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 107th Episode of NLP Around You. Stay tuned for another exciting announcement at the end of this newsletter below.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“By conquering piece by piece, you conquer inner peace.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” — Viktor E. Frankl

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Instant State Shifts

Ever felt stuck in a bad mood and just couldn’t snap out of it? NLP teaches that your emotional state isn’t fixed—it’s flexible. And you can shift it in seconds by changing your physiology, focus, or self-talk.

Start with your body. Stand up straight, breathe deeply, lift your chest, and smile—even if you don’t feel like it. Your brain takes cues from your posture. Change the way you move, and you change the way you feel.

Then, shift your focus. Ask yourself, “What’s something I’m grateful for right now?” or “What can I look forward to today?” Your mind goes where your questions lead it.

Finally, change your inner voice. Instead of “This is too hard,” say “I’ve handled worse—let’s go.” Say it with energy.

In just a minute, you can move from stuck to strong. From flat to fired-up. Your state is yours to shift—any time you choose.

You are invited to JOIN the next batch of NLP Practitioner Course by registering here: https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/nlp-practitioner

🔮 Meta Magic

Who Decides Where The Bullseye Is?

In a peaceful little village nestled among green hills, a famous archer once came for a visit. As he walked through the village, something strange caught his eye.

Walls—dozens of them—covered with painted targets. And right in the middle of every single one? An arrow. Perfectly shot. Bullseye after bullseye.

The archer couldn’t believe it.
“Who’s the genius behind this?” he asked, completely amazed.

The villagers started laughing.
“Oh that? That’s just our village fool!”

The archer raised an eyebrow. “Fool or not, I want to meet him. This kind of aim is no joke.”

Soon, the “fool” showed up—messy hair, a cheeky grin, and eyes full of mischief.
The archer greeted him with deep respect.
“Tell me your secret,” he said. “How do you always hit the bullseye?”

The fool leaned in, like he was about to whisper an ancient trick. Then he laughed and said,
“Oh, that’s easy! I shoot the arrow first… and then I draw the target around it!”

The archer was stunned—and then he smiled.

Because in that silly-sounding answer was a powerful truth:
Success isn’t always about hitting the “right” target. Sometimes, it’s about making the target after you’ve taken the shot. It’s about seeing meaning in where you land.

So my question to you is — Are you too focused on hitting a fixed goal? Or are you open to creating new meaning from where your arrow lands?

📖 Hook from the Book

“There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” — Mel Robbins, The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Which would be worse, to live as a monster or to die as a good man?” This dialogue from the movie Shutter Island is a powerful reframe, showing how a person can reinterpret a painful truth and make a choice aligned with their deeper values and preferred self-image.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

April Fool May Be Harmless; Being an Emotional Fool Is Not.

📢 Announcement of the Week

Presenting “THE BREAKTHROUGH” – an Exciting In-Person Intensive Offline Experience. Comment or Reply “Breakthrough” for complete details now.

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 106th Episode of NLP Around You.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Without the art of storytelling, even the board room becomes a bored room.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“If you want to shine like a Sun, learn to burn like a Sun.” — APJ Abdul Kalam

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Enhancing Focus

Struggling to stay focused? NLP can help you train your mind to tune out distractions and zoom in on what matters. One simple way is by controlling your internal dialogue. Notice what you say to yourself when your mind wanders—it’s often unhelpful chatter like “I can’t concentrate” or “This is too much.”

Now, flip the script. Replace it with a clear, empowering command: “Right now, I choose to focus.” Say it with certainty, even in your mind.

Pair this with visualisation—imagine your mind as a camera lens, sharpening only on what you need to see, and blurring everything else. The clearer your internal picture, the sharper your real-world focus becomes.

With practice, you teach your brain to respond differently. NLP turns focus into a skill—not a struggle. One thought, one image, one choice at a time.

You are invited to JOIN the next batch of NLP Practitioner Course by registering here: https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/nlp-practitioner

🔮 Meta Magic

The Subtle Art of Not Taking a F

Monty Roberts, a well-known horse ranch owner in San Isidro, often lends his beautiful home for his friend’s fundraisers supporting at-risk youth.

One day, someone asked him, “Monty, why are you always so generous with your space?”

Monty smiled, his eyes softening with emotion. Before anyone could say more, he drifted into a memory from his past.

“I was a teenager,” he began. “Our teacher gave us an assignment—to write about what we wanted to be when we grew up. I poured my heart into it. Seven pages. I described my dream in detail: a 200-acre horse ranch with a 4,000-square-foot home. I even included drawings of the layout.

Two days later, the paper came back with a big red ‘F’ across the top. My teacher told me, ‘Monty, this dream is unrealistic. You don’t have the money, the background, or the connections to make it happen. Rewrite it with something more achievable, and I’ll consider changing your grade.’

I was crushed. When I shared this with my father, he said something I’ll never forget: ‘Son, you have to make your own choice on this.’

I thought about it for a whole week. Then I turned in the exact same paper.

‘You can keep the F,’ I told my teacher. ‘I’ll keep my dream.’”

Monty paused, then looked around.

“And here we are today—standing in the middle of my 200-acre ranch, inside my 4,000-square-foot house. That paper, the one I refused to change, is now framed above my fireplace.”

My question to you is — Are you taking the F given to you by others?

📖 Hook from the Book

“People you love never die. That is what Omai had said, all those years ago. And he was right. They don’t die. Not completely. They live in your mind, the way they always lived inside you. You keep their light alive. If you remember them well enough, they can still guide you, like the shine of long-extinguished stars could guide ships in unfamiliar waters.” — Matt Haig, How to Stop Time

🎬 Movie Motivation

“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” This dialogue from Moulin Rouge speaks to the power of emotional alignment and connection. In NLP, cultivating positive emotional states and fostering supportive relationships are seen as fundamental for personal well-being and growth.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Can You Be More Than Your Personality?

Here’s a quick reminder for you that to leap on that Early Bird Offer which is valid only till 31st March 2025. Get complete details here:

https://w3coach.com/from-personality-to-possibility/

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

In today’s Episode (#105), hold your breath for 2 interesting upcoming programs.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Manifestation is nothing but mind, body and soul working together on one mission.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” — Rumi

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Flexibility Beyond Personality Types

We often box ourselves in with labels—“I’m an introvert,” “I’m not a risk-taker,” “That’s just how I am.” But NLP reminds us that you are more than your personality type. These patterns may describe your preferences, but they don’t define your potential.

Flexibility means tapping into a wider range of behaviours when the situation calls for it. An introvert can be a confident speaker. A detail-oriented person can also learn to think big-picture. NLP techniques like modelling and perceptual positions help you step into someone else’s mindset, even if it’s not your natural style.

Ask yourself: “What would it be like to think, speak, or act like someone who’s completely different from me?” Try it on—just like trying on a new jacket.

True personal growth comes when you stop saying “That’s not me” and start saying “That can be me—when I choose it.” Flexibility isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about expanding who you can be.

So, here’s the announcement of the first program – the launch of my new in-person workshop: “FROM PERSONALITY TO POSSIBILITY”

If you are you ready to shift from “This is who I am” to “This is who I can become?”, then I invite you to take this exploration deeper—with us (Deepti Jandial and me), in person, on 10th April 2025 for a transformational, full-day workshop titled “From Personality to Possibility”—where psychometric insights meet NLP tools to help you rewire your patterns, reimagine your outcomes, and reclaim your flexibility.

Complete details here: https://w3coach.com/from-personality-to-possibility/

🔮 Meta Magic

Are You Sharpening Your Axe Enough?

John and Jack were two skilled woodcutters, known for their strength. One day, the villagers challenged them: Who could cut the most trees in a day? 🏆

At sunrise, John grabbed his axe and started chopping non-stop. “No breaks, just hard work!” he thought. Sweat poured down his face, but he refused to stop.

Jack, however, had a different approach. He worked hard too—but every hour, he took a short break. John scoffed. “How does he expect to win by resting?” 😤

As the hours passed, John’s swings slowed. His axe felt heavier, and the trees took longer to fall. Meanwhile, Jack was still cutting with ease. By sunset, Jack had felled more trees—without exhausting himself. 🌳✨

Baffled, John asked, “How did you do it?”

Jack smiled and said, “Every time I took a break, I sharpened my axe. A sharper axe cuts faster with less effort. It’s not just about working hard—it’s about working smart.” 🪓💡

Are you sharpening your axe while you rest/pause?

📖 Hook from the Book

“The first step to empathy is to understand the issue. To do this we need to learn how to listen to understand and not to reply. We have all heard the phrase, ‘We have two ears and one mouth. We should use them in that proportion.’ However, something even more interesting is that if we put two ears side by side, they form the shape of a heart. Also, we cannot spell heart without ear. So, if we really want to understand someone’s heart, the only way is through the ears. Listen!” — Michiko Aoyama, What You Are Looking for is in the Library

🎬 Movie Motivation

“It’s not about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.” This dialogue from Rocky Balboa reminds us that resilience is key. NLP teaches the value of reframing setbacks as learning opportunities—each challenge is a chance to build inner strength and push forward despite adversity.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

How Nirupama Flipped The Script at Her Work

And now, here is the second program as promised. 

💡 Introducing: Design Your Quarter – The Clarity & Momentum Challenge
While we kicked off 2025 with a vision… now, let’s make sure we are on track to bring it to life!  If you are ready to design your next 90 days with purpose, then make sure to register here. The 5-day challenge starts from Monday 24th March 2025, so join in NOW.

https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/design-your-quarter

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

W3 Coach and NLP Master Trainer

Welcome to Episode #104 of your favourite newsletter NLP Around You.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Plan B is not just having alternative strategies, but also strategizing your emotional states before you choose any alternative.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Ups and downs in life are very important to keep us going because a straight line even in an ECG means we are not alive.” — Late Sir Ratan Tata

⏳ One Minute NLP

Instant Confidence with NLP

Confidence isn’t something you either have or don’t—it’s a state of mind you can access anytime with NLP. One simple technique is anchoring. Think of a time when you felt truly confident—maybe after a big win or a moment of success. Close your eyes and relive it fully: see what you saw, hear what you heard, and feel that power in your body.

Now, as the feeling peaks, create a physical anchor—press your thumb and forefinger together or tap your chest. Repeat this process several times, strengthening the link between the gesture and the confident state.

Next time you need a boost before a big meeting, presentation, or conversation, activate your anchor. Your mind will recall that confident state instantly. Confidence isn’t luck—it’s a skill you can train. And with NLP, you’re always just one trigger away from stepping into your best self.

You are invited to JOIN the next batch of NLP Practitioner Course by registering here: https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/nlp-practitioner

🔮 Meta Magic

What Bridges Are You Leaving Behind?

The old man wiped the sweat off his forehead as he pushed through the thick forest. His feet crunched against the damp earth, the air filled with the scent of leaves and soil. Birds called from a distance, their songs echoing through the trees.

After a long walk, he reached a river. It was wide and fast, the water rushing past with force. He looked around for a way across, but there was none. If he wanted to continue, he would have to build a bridge.

Slowly, he gathered strong branches, tied them together with vines, and placed logs to hold everything in place. His hands, though old, worked steadily. When the bridge was ready, he tested it carefully, one step at a time, until he reached the other side.

Relieved, he could have moved on. But he didn’t.

Instead, he turned back and reinforced the bridge, making it stronger and safer. He knew others would come this way, and he wanted to help them.

Just then, a traveler arrived and watched him curiously.

“You’ve already crossed,” the traveler said. “Why are you still working on the bridge?”

The old man smiled. “Because someone else will need it too. I struggled to cross, but now others won’t have to.”

The traveler nodded and stepped onto the bridge, grateful for the stranger’s kindness.

So ask yourself: What bridges are you leaving behind? 

📖 Hook from the Book

“Singles are envious of those who are married, and married couples envy those with children, but people with children are envious of singles. It’s an endless merry-go-round. But isn’t that funny? That each person should be chasing the tail of the person in front of them, when no one is coming first or last. In other words, when it comes to happiness nothing is better or worse—there is no definitive state.” — Michiko Aoyama, What You Are Looking for is in the Library

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Get busy living, or get busy dying.” This dialogue from The Shawshank Redemption underscores the power of choice and commitment. In NLP, adopting a proactive mindset means choosing to take meaningful actions rather than remaining passive, which ultimately shapes your reality.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

How Gurpreet Found Her Purpose with NLP

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

NLP Master Trainer and W3 Coach

Welcome to Episode #103 of your favourite newsletter NLP Around You.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Once you sow the seed, then it’s a matter of speed.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“The moment you talk about work/life balance you already missed the balance. Work and life overlap.” — Seth Godin

⏳ One Minute NLP

Letting Go of the Past

Holding onto past mistakes, regrets, or painful experiences can weigh you down. NLP offers a simple yet powerful way to release emotional baggage and move forward. One technique is dissociation—instead of reliving a past event, imagine watching it as a distant movie. See it in black and white, shrink it down, and let it fade. The further you push it away in your mind, the less emotional charge it holds.

Another method is reframing—instead of asking “Why did this happen to me?” shift to “What did this teach me?” Every experience, no matter how painful, holds a lesson that can make you stronger.

Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting—it means freeing yourself from the past’s grip. The more you focus on the present and future, the lighter and more empowered you become. Release what no longer serves you and step into the life you truly want.

You are invited to JOIN the next batch of NLP Practitioner Course by registering here: https://www.w3successacademy.com/f/nlp-practitioner

🔮 Meta Magic

Prove Wrong or Move On?

Professor Bennett was known for his unconventional methods. His students at Westbridge University were used to his philosophical riddles, but today was different. As they filed into the classroom, they found him standing beside his desk, an old wooden chair placed deliberately on top of it.

Without preamble, he picked up a piece of chalk and wrote on the board in bold letters: “Prove that this chair does not exist.”

Murmurs rippled through the room as the students exchanged puzzled glances. Some frowned in concentration, others smirked, already crafting their arguments. The clock began ticking, and one by one, they hunched over their desks, scribbling furiously.

Jason, a logical thinker, opted for a scientific approach. “Matter is made up of atoms, which are mostly empty space. If the chair is mostly emptiness, does it truly exist in a solid state?”

Across the room, Thomas filled pages with intricate reasoning, pulling in concepts from Kant and Berkeley. His handwriting was rushed but deliberate, as if each word carried immense weight.

Then there was Daniel. He simply glanced at the board, smiled, and wrote two words on his paper before standing up. The entire room watched as he casually handed his sheet to Professor Bennett and walked out.

Days later, Professor Bennett returned the graded papers. Daniel had topped. The whole class wanted to know what did Daniel write on paper, so the professor asked him to spill the beans.

“I wrote-‘what chair?’” Daniel replied.

In life, we often spend too much time battling illusions—worries, doubts, fears—that only exist because we acknowledge them. Sometimes, the simplest way to overcome an obstacle is not to fight it, but to refuse its existence altogether.

So ask yourself: What chairs are you still trying to prove wrong, when you could simply move on? 

📖 Hook from the Book

“Person A understands Person B because the time is right for that to happen, not because Person B wants to be understood by Person A.” — Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

🎬 Movie Motivation

“With great power comes great responsibility.” This dialogue from Spiderman highlights the balance between internal capacity and external action. NLP stresses self-awareness and ethical use of personal strengths, ensuring that our actions align with our values and purpose.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗭𝗼𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝗥𝗼𝗼𝗺: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗡𝗟𝗣 𝗖𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵-𝗨𝗽!

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

NLP Master Trainer and W3 Coach