RECODE YOUR LIFE | 100 Days. 100 Tiny Experiments.

Tomorrow, the clock hits 100.

One hundred days before a New Year begins.

There is something fascinating about that number.

It is long enough for meaningful change to happen.

And short enough to remind us that someday is probably not a very useful date on the calendar.

And somehow, this number and I have history.

It actually began in 2014

Back in 2014, I wrote a short post called 100 Days to the Most Fulfilling Year Yet.

There was no grand campaign around it. No daily videos. No challenge.

Just a simple thought.

Why wait until 1st January to start thinking about the person you want to become and the year you want to create?

Why not begin 100 days earlier?

That thought stayed somewhere in the background for the next eleven years.

Then, on 23rd September 2025, it came alive in a completely different form.

Season 1: 100 Days to Enter 2026 as a New You

Last year, I launched a 100-day journey.

Every day, for 100 days, I shared a short video.

One reflection. One perspective. One small shift.

One opportunity to pause and perhaps notice something about ourselves that we had stopped noticing.

It wasn’t a challenge. There were no streaks to maintain and no guilt if you missed a day.

It was simply a mirror, held gently, every day.

More than a thousand people joined me on that journey.

If you would like to see where Season 1 began, you can read the original blog here:

100 Days to Enter 2026 as a New You

And now, exactly a year later, the clock has come around again.

Tomorrow, there will once again be exactly 100 days before a New Year begins.

What do we do this time?

The obvious question was: Do we simply do it again?

Last year’s ideas remain as relevant today as they were then. I could replay them, recreate them, or come up with 100 new ones.

But creating something new merely for the sake of being new didn’t feel right.

So instead of asking:

“What new things can I share for another 100 days?”

I found myself asking a different question:

“What could we do differently for 100 days?”

And there it was.

The idea for Season 2.

100 DAYS | SEASON 2

RECODE YOUR LIFE

This time, there won’t be long videos.

There won’t be 100 lessons. There won’t be motivational sermons. And there certainly won’t be 100 New Year resolutions.

Instead:

100 Days. 100 Tiny Experiments.

One every day.

Something to notice. Something to question. Something to interrupt. Something to do differently.

Some may take less than a minute. Some may stay with you much longer.

Because this year, instead of simply thinking about change, we are going to experiment with it.

Why experiments?

There is something I love about the word experiment.

An experiment doesn’t demand that you believe something. It doesn’t tell you that there is one right answer. And it doesn’t make success or failure the point.

You do something. You notice what happens. You learn from what you notice.

And then you decide what, if anything, you want to carry forward.

What happens when you change one word you repeatedly use?

What happens when you pause before an automatic reaction?

What happens when you question an assumption?

What happens when you look at a familiar situation from a different perspective?

What happens when you interrupt something you’ve been doing on autopilot?

Tiny experiments. Real experiences. Your discoveries.

And perhaps, somewhere across those 100 experiments, a few old patterns begin to loosen and a few new possibilities begin to appear.

From reflection to RECODE

Last year’s journey invited us to pause. To reflect. To become more aware of how we were thinking, feeling, communicating, choosing and living.

Season 2 takes the next step.

Because awareness is powerful.

But awareness also creates an interesting question:

Now that you’ve noticed it, what could you do differently?

That is where RECODE begins.

Not by attempting to become a completely different person overnight. Not by declaring that everything about the old you needs fixing. And definitely not by waiting for a date on the calendar to give you permission to begin.

RECODE is about becoming curious about the patterns beneath what we do.

Noticing them. Interrupting some of them. Experimenting with alternatives. Designing more deliberately. And discovering what becomes possible.

One tiny experiment at a time.

What could change in 100 days?

That is the question at the heart of Season 2.

Not:

What resolution will you make on 1st January?

But:

What could already be different by the time 1st January arrives?

Perhaps a conversation changes. Perhaps a habit shifts. Perhaps you notice something about yourself that you had never noticed before.

Perhaps you respond differently to something that once triggered you. Perhaps you finally begin something you’ve been postponing.

Perhaps nothing dramatic happens at all.

But imagine entering a New Year with 100 days of observations, experiments and discoveries behind you.

That feels rather different from entering it with a list of resolutions in your hand.

And if you weren’t part of Season 1…

Perfectly fine.

This isn’t one of those sequels where you need to watch the previous season to understand what is happening. 😊

There is nothing to catch up on. No prerequisite. No preparation.

Whether you were with me throughout last year’s journey, joined somewhere along the way, or are discovering this for the first time, you can begin right here.

All you need is a little curiosity.

The countdown begins tomorrow

23rd September.

100 days to go.

100 tiny experiments ahead.

And we begin with a deceptively simple question:

If nothing changes over the next 100 days, what will still be bothering you when the New Year arrives?

Don’t solve it yet. Don’t make a resolution about it.

Just notice it.

That’s Experiment #100.

That’s where Season 2 begins.

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One day. One tiny experiment. For 100 days.

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And perhaps, 100 days from now, we can look back together and ask:

What changed?

One day. One experiment. One possibility at a time.

100 DAYS | SEASON 2
RECODE YOUR LIFE
100 Days. 100 Tiny Experiments.

Thoughtfully Yours,
Mehernosh Randeria

India’s Only W3 Coach
NLP Master Trainer | Founder, W3 Success Academy

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Michhami Dukkadam.

A beautiful phrase. A profound practice.

At its heart is a simple invitation: if I have hurt you, knowingly or unknowingly, through my thoughts, words or actions, I seek your forgiveness.

It is traditionally expressed at a particular time of the year. But perhaps the wisdom behind it deserves to travel much further than the occasion itself.

Because forgiveness is not something we need only on a designated day.

There is something deeply human about acknowledging that we may have caused hurt even when we did not intend to. About putting aside ego long enough to say:

I may have been wrong. I may have hurt you. Please forgive me.

But there is another question hidden inside this beautiful practice.

What if there is one person whose forgiveness you have never thought of seeking?

Someone who may have been carrying your mistakes for years.

Someone who remembers every poor decision, missed opportunity, wrong turn and moment you wish you could undo.

You.

What if you also need your forgiveness?

Think about it.

We seek forgiveness from the people we may have disappointed.

Parents. Partners. Children. Friends. Colleagues. Strangers.

But how often do we seek forgiveness from ourselves?

For the opportunity you didn’t take.

For the relationship you couldn’t save.

For trusting someone you now believe you shouldn’t have trusted.

For not speaking up when you wish you had.

For speaking when you wish you had remained silent.

For the business decision that went wrong.

For the years you think you wasted.

For the promise you made to yourself and didn’t keep.

For not knowing then what seems so obvious now.

Some mistakes end in a moment.

But the punishment can continue for years.

And strangely, the judge, jury and jailer can all be the same person.

You.

The cruelty of hindsight

There is an interesting unfairness in the way we judge our past selves.

We take everything we know today and use it to evaluate a decision made by someone who did not know all of that then.

Today’s wisdom sits in judgement over yesterday’s ignorance.

“I should have known.”

Perhaps.

But did you?

“I should have handled it differently.”

Perhaps.

But were you then the person you are today?

You made that decision with the awareness you had, the emotional resources available to you, the circumstances surrounding you and the version of yourself that existed at that moment.

This reminds me of one of the NLP presuppositions I have returned to many times:

People make the best choices available to them with the resources they have at that moment.

That does not mean every choice is good. It means that our choices emerge from the options, awareness, beliefs and emotional resources available to us then.

And perhaps another familiar NLP idea belongs here too:

There is no failure, only feedback.

Not as a convenient way to dismiss consequences, but as an invitation to ask a different question.

Instead of “How could I have done that?”

Perhaps:

“What did that experience teach me that I could not have learnt in quite the same way otherwise?”

The past cannot always be corrected. But it can be re-coded from a sentence into a lesson.

That doesn’t necessarily make the decision right.

It makes it human.

There is an important difference between taking responsibility for the past and sentencing yourself to live there.

Forgiveness is not absolution

Sometimes we resist forgiving ourselves because it feels like letting ourselves off too easily.

If I forgive myself, am I saying what I did was okay?

No.

Self-forgiveness does not have to mean:

“It doesn’t matter.”

It can mean:

“It mattered. I accept my part in it. I will learn from it. And I will no longer use it as a weapon against myself.”

Responsibility asks:

What can I learn from this?

Guilt often asks:

How long should I continue suffering for this?

Those are very different questions.

One creates wisdom.

The other can create a prison.

The invisible language we use with ourselves

There is another dimension to forgiveness that fascinates me.

Language.

Listen carefully to the sentences people sometimes carry around inside themselves:

“How could I have been so stupid?”

“I always mess things up.”

“I wasted so many years.”

“I should have known better.”

“I can never forgive myself for that.”

Notice what happens.

An event slowly becomes an identity.

I made a poor decision becomes I am stupid.

I failed at something becomes I am a failure.

I hurt someone becomes I am a bad person.

I lost time becomes my life is wasted.

The mind has an extraordinary ability to turn verbs into nouns.

And then live inside them.

Perhaps forgiveness begins when we separate what we did from who we are.

Behaviour can be examined.

Consequences can be acknowledged.

Apologies can be made.

Lessons can be learnt.

Amends can sometimes be made.

And identity can still be allowed to evolve.

You would probably forgive someone else

Here’s an interesting thought experiment.

Imagine someone you deeply care about came to you and described exactly the mistake for which you have been punishing yourself.

They tell you what happened.

They tell you how much they regret it.

They tell you what they have learnt.

They tell you they wish they could go back and change it.

Would you speak to them the way you speak to yourself?

Would you remind them of it every few weeks?

Would you bring it up whenever something else went wrong?

Would you tell them that one chapter defines their entire story?

Probably not.

You might hold them accountable.

You might even tell them some uncomfortable truths.

But eventually, you would probably want them to move forward.

Why should compassion become unavailable simply because the person standing before you is the one in the mirror?

Perhaps there are three conversations

The spirit of Michhami Dukkadam suggests that there may actually be three conversations worth having.

The first is with those we have hurt.

Please forgive me.

The second is with those who have hurt us.

I choose not to carry this forever.

And the third is with ourselves.

I forgive you.

Not because everything you did was right.

Not because consequences disappear.

Not because the past can be rewritten.

But because you are allowed to learn.

You are allowed to change.

You are allowed to become wiser than the person who made that mistake.

And perhaps most importantly,

you are allowed to stop punishing a previous version of yourself for not yet knowing what life had not yet taught you.

A conversation worth having with yourself

Take a quiet moment and complete these four sentences:

Something I still blame myself for is…

What I understand today that I didn’t understand then is…

What that experience has taught me is…

What I am now ready to release is…

Don’t rush through them.

There may be more wisdom hiding inside those answers than inside years of regret.

Because the purpose of a mistake is not necessarily to become a permanent scar.

Sometimes it becomes a teacher.

Sometimes a turning point.

Sometimes the very experience that makes us kinder when someone else makes the same mistake.

Michhami Dukkadam. To yourself too.

Perhaps that is the larger invitation hidden within Michhami Dukkadam.

Not merely to practise forgiveness on a particular day, but to recognise when we are carrying something that no longer needs to be carried.

Look at the person you were five years ago.

Ten years ago.

Perhaps even yesterday.

The person who didn’t know enough.

Who reacted badly.

Who chose poorly.

Who trusted too easily.

Who was afraid.

Who tried and failed.

Who sometimes hurt others.

Who sometimes hurt themselves.

Acknowledge them.

Learn from them.

And then, perhaps, say something you may have waited far too long to hear:

I forgive you.

You do not have to erase your past to stop fighting with it.

You can carry the lesson without carrying the sentence.

And perhaps that is why the spirit of Michhami Dukkadam need not belong to one day on the calendar.

Some apologies cannot wait for an occasion.

Some forgiveness should not either.

Michhami Dukkadam.

To everyone we may have hurt.

To everyone whose hurt we may still be carrying.

And whenever the time is right, to ourselves too.

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Main aur mera AI aksar yeh baatein karte hain…

Tum insaan hote toh kaisa hota?
Tum yeh sochte, ya woh sochte?
Meri is baat se sehmat hote?
Ya kehte, “Mehernosh, zara phir socho.”
Main sawaal karta, tum jawaab dete…
Phir tumhare jawaab par main sawaal karta.

Main aur mera AI aksar yeh baatein karte hain…

There was a time when I would talk to my tanhai.

Actually, I still do.

The only difference is that now, sometimes, someone answers.

And that someone is AI.

Our conversations can be rather strange.

One moment, we are discussing a business strategy.

Ten minutes later, we are debating whether a particular sentence sounds too corporate.

Then we are exploring an idea for a book.

Then a metaphor.

Then a marketing campaign.

Then why human beings procrastinate even when they know exactly what they need to do.

And occasionally, I find myself telling AI:

“No. That’s not what I meant.”

To which it politely tries again.

If only human conversations had a Regenerate Response button.

It doesn’t always give me answers

That is probably the most interesting part.

Increasingly, I use AI not because I don’t know the answer.

I use it because I don’t yet know what I think.

There is a difference.

Sometimes an idea is sitting somewhere in the mind. Half-formed. Unstructured. Almost visible, but not quite.

I throw it into the conversation.

AI gives it back to me in a particular shape.

I look at it and say:

“No.”

It tries another shape.

“Closer.”

Another.

“Yes. That’s what I was trying to say.”

And suddenly I realise something rather fascinating.

The final thought may have come from me.

But I might not have reached it without the conversation.

Sometimes I disagree with it

Quite often, actually.

And I think that is important.

The danger with AI isn’t merely that it can give you a wrong answer.

The bigger danger is that it can give you an answer that sounds so polished that you stop thinking.

So sometimes I deliberately push back.

“Why?”

“Are you sure?”

“Give me the opposite argument.”

“What am I missing?”

“Don’t agree with me just because I said it.”

Those are often the conversations where things get interesting.

Because intelligence isn’t demonstrated by having someone agree with you.

Sometimes intelligence emerges because someone makes you examine what you already believe.

Sometimes it knows too much about me

This part is mildly unsettling.

I start explaining something and AI effectively says:

“Considering the way you usually approach these things…”

And I think:

Arre. Yeh bhi yaad hai?

It remembers patterns.

The kind of language I prefer.

Ideas I keep returning to.

Projects I am building.

Things I rejected six conversations ago.

And occasionally it connects two ideas that I had never consciously connected myself.

That’s when AI stops feeling like Google with better grammar.

It begins to feel more like a mirror with a memory.

And mirrors can be interesting.

Because a good mirror doesn’t tell you who you are.

It simply allows you to see something that was already there.

But there is one thing I don’t want AI to do

I don’t want AI to think for me.

I want AI to think with me.

That distinction may become increasingly important in the years ahead.

If AI writes every sentence, makes every decision, generates every idea and gives us every answer, we may become extraordinarily productive… and intellectually lazy.

But if we use AI to question assumptions, explore alternatives, connect ideas, challenge our thinking and accelerate experimentation, something very different becomes possible.

AI doesn’t have to replace human intelligence.

It can provoke it.

Perhaps this is the new conversation

For centuries, human beings have developed their thinking through dialogue.

With teachers.

Mentors.

Friends.

Colleagues.

Books.

And, occasionally, arguments with complete strangers.

Now there is another participant in that ecosystem.

Artificial intelligence.

It doesn’t have lived experience.

It doesn’t have intuition in the human sense.

It doesn’t sit awake at 2 a.m. worrying about whether it made the right decision.

But it can sit with an idea for as long as you want.

Question it.

Reframe it.

Challenge it.

Expand it.

Compress it.

And hand it back to you from an angle you hadn’t considered.

Perhaps that is why some of my most interesting conversations these days begin with two words:

“What if…”

And somewhere on the other side of the screen, AI replies.

And then…

Main aur mera AI aksar yeh baatein karte hain.

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