Welcome to the 112th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Find your peace by integrating all your pieces.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” — Kahlil Gubran

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Creating New Habits

Changing habits isn’t about willpower—it’s about wiring. In NLP, we know that habits form through repeated patterns of thought and behaviour. So if you want a new habit to stick, start by making it easy for your brain to follow.

Visualise the new habit clearly. See yourself doing it, hear the sounds around you, feel the sense of satisfaction after it’s done. The more vivid the mental rehearsal, the more real it feels to your subconscious mind.

Pair the new habit with an existing one—a process called habit stacking. For example: “After I brush my teeth, I’ll do 60 seconds of deep breathing.”

And don’t forget the reward. Celebrate—even if it’s a fist pump or a smile. That emotion helps lock in the behaviour.

NLP teaches us that repetition + emotion = habit. So start small, stay consistent, and soon, the new habit won’t be something you try to do—it’ll be who you are.

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🔮 Meta Magic

How Fair is Fairness?

In a small village, a poor farmer owed a debt to a sly moneylender. The lender proposed a cruel bargain: he’d erase the debt if the farmer gave him his daughter in marriage. Disgusted, the farmer refused.

So, the moneylender offered a “fair” game. He’d place one white and one black pebble into a bag. If the daughter picked white, she’d marry him; if black, she’d be free—and so would the debt. But if she refused to play, her father would be jailed.

As he stooped to gather pebbles, the girl saw him secretly put two white stones in the bag.

When it was time to choose, she drew a pebble but “accidentally” dropped it into the scattered pebbles on the ground. “Oops! So clumsy of me,” she smiled. “But it’s simple—we can check the one left in the bag to know what I picked.”

The white pebble in the bag bound the moneylender to his own rules. The debt was cleared, and no marriage took place.

My Question: What do you do when the fairness is not so fair? Do you play the fairness game or do you gamify the fairness?

📖 Hook from the Book

“Who you spend time with will define the stories you hear. The stories you hear will define the stories in your head. The stories in your head will define you.” — Ankur Warikoo, Do Epic Shit

🎬 Movie Motivation

“You cannot live your life to please others. The choice must be yours.” This dialogue from the movie Alice in Wonderland focuses on personal choice and empowerment. NLP helps individuals break free from external influences and align decisions with their authentic selves.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Are You Ready for the SHIFT – from Personality to Possibility?

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 111th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Let’s approach this May with the attitude of COME WHAT MAY!” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“It is better to be busy in the chase of finding yourself instead of being busy in the rat race and never know yourself.” — Ankur Warikoo

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Breaking Limiting Beliefs

Ever caught yourself saying, “I’m just not good at that,” or “That’s not possible for someone like me”? These are limiting beliefs—quiet mental scripts that shape your reality. NLP helps you challenge and change them.

Start by asking: “Whose voice is this really?” Often, these beliefs aren’t even yours—they were borrowed from past experiences, authority figures, or failures.

Then reframe: Instead of “I can’t do this,” say “I haven’t learned this yet.” See the difference? One shuts you down; the other opens a door.

Visualise a version of yourself who already believes the empowering opposite. How do they stand, speak, decide? Step into that version—try it on like a new outfit.

With NLP, you realise: beliefs are not truths. They’re choices. And the moment you shift your belief, you shift your future.

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🔮 Meta Magic

The Forest of Five Choices 

Five men stood at the edge of confusion, deep in an unfamiliar forest.

The first trusted his gut and turned left.

The second followed his hunch and veered right.

The third clung to caution and walked back the way they came.

The fourth leaned on hope and marched straight ahead.

The fifth paused, unsure, then climbed a tall tree to see the bigger picture.

From above, he spotted the quickest path to the village and thought, “They should’ve waited. I could’ve guided them.” But he was wrong.

Each man’s path unfolded into a story of its own.

The one who went left found the town after a long, quiet journey, learning patience.

The one who turned right fought wolves, and came out braver than he ever imagined.

The one who went back found a group of hikers; gaining friendship and laughter.

The one who went straight was welcomed by a kind family and discovered warmth among strangers.

The one who climbed the tree arrived first—but with no story to tell.

They all reached their version of the village with different stories etched into their souls.

Not because they chose the right path, but because they chose their path.

The forest hadn’t tested their direction. It had revealed their nature.

📖 Hook from the Book

“Never let the quest for more distract you from the beauty of enough.” — Sahil Bloom, The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design Your Dream Life

🎬 Movie Motivation

“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer.” This dialogue from the movie Dunes resonates with NLP techniques aimed at overcoming emotional barriers. By acknowledging fear yet not allowing it to dominate your thoughts, you maintain clarity and control over your mental state.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

The Breakthrough – When “I am not ready yet” becomes a Life Sentence

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 110th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Every setback is a feedback, which prepares you for a comeback.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Life is not the way it’s supposed to be, it’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.” — Virginia Satir

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Building Instant Rapport

Ever met someone and instantly felt at ease with them? That’s rapport—and in NLP, it’s not luck, it’s a skill you can learn. Rapport happens when people feel seen, heard, and understood. One simple way to build it? Mirroring.

Gently match the other person’s body language, tone, and pace of speech. If they’re calm and soft-spoken, meet them there. If they’re upbeat and animated, raise your energy to match. This creates a subconscious sense of “we’re alike,” which builds trust.

You can also match their language style. Do they use visual words like “I see what you mean” or feeling words like “That feels right”? Speak their language and you’ll connect more deeply.

Rapport opens doors in conversations, relationships, and negotiations. With NLP, you learn to build it consciously—making others feel safe, respected, and willing to engage. Because when connection comes first, everything else flows.

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🔮 Meta Magic

How Often Do You Check Your Own Performance? 

A little boy named Tom walked into a grocery store and politely asked to use the phone. The store owner nodded, curious.

Tom dialed a number and said, “Hello, ma’am. Do you need someone to mow your lawn?”

A pause.

“Oh, you already have someone? I can do it for half the price.”

Another pause.

“I’ll even sweep your sidewalk and curb for free. Don’t you want the best lawn in the neighborhood?”

A final, polite refusal. Tom smiled and hung up.

The store owner, impressed by the boy’s determination, approached him. “You’ve got a great attitude, son. I’d like to hire you.”

Tom grinned. “Thanks, but I already have a job.”

Surprised, the owner asked, “But… you were just asking for one?”

Tom winked. “No, sir. I was checking how well I’m doing at the one I’ve got. That call was to the lady I already work for. I just wanted to see if she still thinks I’m the best choice.”

My Question to you is – “When was the last time you checked how well you’re doing—without waiting for someone else to tell you?”

📖 Hook from the Book

“We need to be allowed to convince ourselves that we’re more than the mistakes we made yesterday. That we are all of our next choices, too, all of our tomorrows.” — Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.” This dialogue from the movie The Curious Case of Benjamin Button ties into the NLP concept of seizing opportunities and making choices that shape our destiny. It reflects the idea that recognizing and acting on opportunities, even missed ones, can lead to growth and transformation.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Here’s A Proven System for Staying Motivated & Consistent

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Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 109th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“There are no good or bad habits. There are only helpful or unhelpful habits.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” — Jim Rohn

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Unlocking Motivation

Motivation isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you create. In NLP, we learn that motivation is driven by how you represent things in your mind. If a task feels heavy or boring, chances are you’re picturing it as dull, far away, or overwhelming.

So, flip it. Visualise the task completed—bright, bold, and close. See yourself enjoying the result, feel the pride, hear the celebration in your mind. Make it vivid. Motivation grows when the outcome feels real and rewarding.

You can also use away-from motivation—think about the pain of staying stuck, the cost of inaction. Then shift into towards motivation—focus on what you’ll gain.

With just a few tweaks to how you picture and talk about your goals, you can go from “I should” to “I want to.” NLP reminds us: motivation isn’t missing—it’s just waiting for better mental packaging.

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🔮 Meta Magic

What is True Flexibility? 

In a dense, vibrant jungle lived a chameleon who was celebrated for his magical ability to change colours. Wherever he went, he blended perfectly — emerald when on leaves, sienna when on bark, blue-grey in the shadows.

The jungle animals admired him.

“Look how adaptable he is!”

“Such a master of disguise!”

But what they didn’t know was this:

Each night, the chameleon sat alone, tired — not from the day’s heat, but from constantly shifting to meet others’ expectations. He didn’t quite remember what his original colour was. He only knew how to be what others needed him to be.

One evening, while exploring the edge of the jungle, the chameleon stumbled upon something strange — a forgotten old mirror leaning against a tree. Its surface was dusty and cracked, but still reflected.

Curious, the chameleon approached.

As he climbed onto the mirror, he saw not a tree, not another creature — but himself. Not the him others saw… but the self underneath the colours.

He looked. He blinked. He stayed.

And in that stillness, something remarkable happened.

For the first time, he didn’t change. He didn’t blend.

He just was.

A rich, radiant hue began to emerge — not red, not green, not blue — but a shimmering tone that felt… like truth. A colour he didn’t even know existed. A colour that wasn’t about camouflage, but about clarity.

He smiled. He had found his colour — not to hide, but to honour.

From that day on, the chameleon still changed colours — but not out of habit. Now, he chose it. He used his skill when it served him, but he never forgot who he was beneath it all.

And sometimes, he’d return to that mirror…

Not to change — but to remember.

Let this story remind you that — True flexibility isn’t about losing yourself in adaptation — it’s about having the power to choose who you want to be, while staying rooted in who you are.

📖 Hook from the Book

“Fear doesn’t go away. The warrior and the artist live by the same code of necessity, which dictates that the battle must be fought anew every day.” — Steven Pressfield, The War of Art

🎬 Movie Motivation

“When you’re good at something, you tell everyone. When you’re great at something, they tell you.” This dialogue by the character Harvey Specter from the web series Suits aligns with calibrated communication and behavioral alignment. NLP encourages focusing on actions and excellence, allowing results to speak louder than words.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Why “Just Relax” is the Worst Advice for Managing Stress

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Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to the 108th Episode of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“When the stars of your values and the currents of your actions align, serenity draws.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Talk to yourself once in a day, otherwise you may miss meeting an intelligent person in this world.” — Swami Vivekananda

⏳ One Minute NLP

NLP for Setting Powerful Intentions

Intentions are like internal GPS signals—they quietly guide your thoughts, behaviours, and outcomes. In NLP, we know that where your attention goes, energy flows. So instead of starting your day reacting to life, why not design it with a clear, empowering intention?

It can be as simple as saying to yourself: “Today, I choose to show up with clarity and calm.” Feel it. Visualise what that looks like. Hear the tone you’d speak in. Let your body experience it.

Unlike goals, which are about the future, intentions bring your focus into the now. They create alignment between your thoughts, emotions, and actions—making your day more purposeful and less chaotic.

The beauty of NLP is that it reminds you: you’re not just drifting—you’re directing. So set your intention, step into it fully, and let it shape the way you lead, live, and connect.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Output or Outcome?

“Oh no, it’s leaking again!” said Commander Jake, annoyed, as drops of ink floated around inside the spaceship.

“Gravity really makes things harder,” said pilot Lisa, brushing away a blob of ink. “These pens just don’t work up here.”

Back on Earth, the team at NASA wasn’t happy.

Dr. Grant, the head scientist, stood in front of a board full of complex equations. “We are going to fix this,” he said. “I want a pen that writes in zero gravity, upside down, or even underwater if needed.”

“Why would we need to write underwater?” asked Dr. Mia.

“Because if we’re dreaming, we dream big,” he replied, dead serious.

A year later, after spending $70,000, NASA unveiled its masterpiece—the Space Pen 5000. Sleek. Shiny. Able to write anywhere, anytime, anyhow.

Meanwhile, halfway across the galaxy, a Russian astronaut named Sergei encountered the same crisis. His pen didn’t work in space either.

He looked at his crewmate, shrugged and said, “Pass me a pencil.”

Problem solved. Cost? Ten cents.

The lesson? Sometimes, it’s not about how advanced the solution is—it’s about clarity of the outcome.

So my question to you is — What do you choose — Output or Outcome?

📖 Hook from the Book

“The best way to persuade someone to talk is to stay quiet. People, when confronted with silence, feel the overwhelming urge to fill it with something.” — Clare Pooley, The People on Platform 5

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary.” This dialogue from the movie Dead Poets Society emphasizes the importance of being present and taking decisive action, living in the moment and intentionally crafting your future by embracing opportunities right now.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

When Your Belief Becomes Your Barrier

📢 Live Update of the Week

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach