Welcome to Episode #137 of NLP Around You. 

 Thoughtful Thought

“Being consistent every day starts with showing up Today!” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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 NLP Quote Corner

“It is better to be busy in the chase of finding yourself instead of being busy in the rat race and never know yourself.” — Elif Shafak

 One Minute NLP

The Power of Modelling

Ever wondered how some people seem naturally confident, persuasive, or calm under pressure? In NLP, we don’t just admire them—we model them.

Modelling is the art of studying how someone achieves a result, then replicating their mindset, language, and behaviour. It’s not imitation—it’s decoding excellence.

Think of someone who handles challenges effortlessly. Notice how they stand, breathe, speak, and think. Ask yourself: What beliefs drive them? What strategies do they use? How do they recover from setbacks?

Then, try it on—literally. Step into their posture, their tone, their inner dialogue. Feel what it’s like to be that version.

NLP reminds us that success leaves clues—and modelling is how we follow them. Because when you learn how someone else does it, you realise… you can do it too.

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 Meta Magic

The Two Coins of Consciousness

One day, Lord Krishna and Arjuna were walking on Earth when a poor beggar crossed their path. Moved by pity, Arjuna handed him fifty gold coins. Overjoyed, the beggar sang songs of his newfound fortune – but fate had other plans. A thief overheard his melody of joy, attacked him, and stole everything.

Bruised and broken, the beggar met Arjuna again. Learning of his loss, Arjuna’s compassion deepened, and this time he gifted him diamonds. The beggar raced home, hid them safely in a mud pot, and dreamt of prosperity. But destiny laughed again – his wife unknowingly carried that same pot to the river. The diamonds sank with the current.

Defeated, the beggar returned to the same road, teary-eyed. Before Arjuna could react, Krishna intervened and handed him just two coins. Confused, the beggar accepted them silently.

On his way back, he spotted a fish gasping for life in a seller’s basket. “These two coins can’t change my life,” he thought, “but maybe they can save hers.” He bought the fish and set it free. As it splashed into the river, the fish spat out the lost diamonds.

Overwhelmed with joy, the beggar shouted, “Got you! Got you!” Ironically, the thief who had once robbed him overheard and panicked, believing he’d been caught. In fear, he rushed back and returned the stolen gold.

Watching from afar, Arjuna was awestruck. “Krishna, how did this miracle happen?” he asked.

Krishna smiled. “When he thought only of himself, he lost everything. But the moment he thought of another life, I thought of his life.”

Meta Magic Moment:

The moment you stop chasing blessings and start becoming one, life gives back in ways you never imagined.

 Hook from the Book

“In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.” — Amish Tripathi, The Secret of the Nagas

 Movie Motivation

“If you focus on what you left behind, you will never be able to see what lies ahead” This dialogue from the movie Ratatouille is a reminder that your mind moves in the direction of your focus. When attention is anchored to the past — regrets, mistakes, or missed chances — your mental map remains outdated. In NLP terms, your representational system keeps replaying old pictures instead of designing new ones. Shift your focus of attention from what’s behind to what’s ahead, and your neurology follows your vision. Because energy flows where attention goes — and possibilities grow where focus flows.

 Winning Post of the Week

From Problem to Outcome

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Your W3 Coach

Mehernosh Randeria

Welcome to Episode #136 of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Present yourself with the presence of yourself.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?” — Elif Shafak

⏳ One Minute NLP

Reframing Failure

What if failure wasn’t the opposite of success—but part of it?

In NLP, we say: There is no failure, only feedback. Every result—good or bad—simply shows you what’s working and what’s not. That insight becomes your next advantage.

Think of a child learning to walk. They fall hundreds of times, but no one calls it failure. Each tumble is feedback—adjusting balance, timing, and coordination—until walking becomes natural.

What if you treated your own setbacks the same way? Instead of asking, “Why did I mess up?” try, “What can I learn from this?”

That shift turns regret into growth and pressure into progress.

In NLP, success isn’t built on perfection—it’s built on persistence, learning, and reframing failure as feedback that moves you forward.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Are You a Giraffe Talking to a Mouse?

The sun shimmered on a silver lake one bright morning.
A group of animals gathered at its edge, curious and cautious.

Two giraffes stepped in first, their long necks slicing the sunlight, eyes calm, voices warm.
“Come in, friends! It’s not deep at all,” they called, laughing as the water brushed their knees. The bears looked at each other, uncertain. The rabbits froze halfway.
And at the very edge, a tiny mouse stood, trembling.

To the giraffes, the lake was shallow, playful, harmless.
To the mouse, it was an ocean, vast, dark, and threatening to swallow it whole. The giraffes meant no harm. They weren’t mocking; they simply couldn’t see through smaller eyes.

And that’s the thing about life- we all see depth differently.

What’s a puddle to one might be a storm to another. We toss words like pebbles –
“It’s not that hard.”
“Just move on.”
“Stop overthinking.”

But we forget —
your comfort could be someone’s chaos.
Your easy might be their edge.

Not because they’re weak —
but because their story carries storms you’ve never sailed through.

So before you say, “It’s not that bad,”
pause.
Take a breath. And remember —
you might just be a giraffe talking to a mouse.

Meta Magic Moment:
True empathy starts where easy judgment ends.
We don’t see the depth of someone’s pain — only the ripples they let us notice.
So speak softly. Act kindly.
For what feels shallow to you…
might be the ocean someone’s still learning to survive.

📖 Hook from the Book

“Nothing is more important than life. Nothing. You realise the simplicity of that point only when you confront death every day.” — Amish Tripathi, The Secret of the Nagas

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Life is beautiful, and messy, and complicated. And sometimes it doesn’t look the way you think it’s supposed to look — and that is okay.” This dialogue from the movie The Life List reminds us that being flexible and accepting of your experiences allows you to reframe meaning and stay resourceful.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

How to Audit Your Own Language

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Your W3 Coach

Mehernosh Randeria

Welcome to Episode #135 of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“The more you understand yourself, the more you master your world.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

For your daily dose of Thoughtful Thoughts, get your Thoughtful Calendar here.

💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Price is what you pay. Value is what you get.” — Warren Buffet

⏳ One Minute NLP

The Power of Rapport

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt a connection? That’s rapport—the invisible bridge between two minds. In NLP, it’s the foundation of all effective communication.

Rapport isn’t about agreeing with everything someone says—it’s about creating harmony. You do it through subtle matching: their tone, pace, posture, even breathing rhythm. When people feel mirrored, they feel understood.

You can also match their language style. If someone says, “I see what you mean,” they’re visual—use words like “clear” or “picture.” If they say, “That sounds good,” they’re auditory—try words like “listen” or “hear.”

Rapport isn’t manipulation—it’s empathy in action. When you match someone’s world, they open the door to yours.

In NLP, connection isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you create.

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🔮 Meta Magic

What’s Ice-cream got to do with Ageing?

The elevator doors slid open with a soft chime, and in walked a little boy holding an ice cream cone – vanilla, melting just enough to make a mess.

It was one of those Delhi winter mornings when the air bites your nose before the coffee kicks in. Meera, wrapped in her oversized shawl, looked at the boy and couldn’t resist saying in her gently concerned, utterly adult tone,
“It’s such a cold day, beta. You’ll fall sick eating that ice cream!”

The boy looked up, eyes twinkling with the calm assurance of someone who’d seen through life’s nonsense.
“My grandma lived to be a hundred and three,” he said, licking his cone with great dedication.

Meera smiled, amused. “Oh really? Because she ate ice cream too?”

He shook his head solemnly. “No. Because she never interfered in other people’s business.”

The elevator dinged. The boy trotted out, leaving behind a faint trail of wisdom and sugar.

Meera stood frozen, processing the unexpected enlightenment she’d just received from a pint-sized philosopher in sneakers.

As the doors closed, she caught her reflection in the mirror panel — amused, humbled, and slightly horrified.
So that’s why I’m aging so fast, she thought. Too much advice, not enough ice cream.

📖 Hook from the Book

“Build a team so strong that someone from the outside doesn’t know who the boss is!” — Ankur Warikoo, Do Epic Shit

🎬 Movie Motivation

“There are facts, and there’s what’s true. And a person needs to make room for both.” This dialogue from the movie The Life List reminds us that reality is filtered by perception – The map is not the territory.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

How to Observe Your Triggers

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Welcome to Episode #134 of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“You don’t need to look serious in order to be taken seriously.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

For your daily dose of Thoughtful Thoughts, get your Thoughtful Calendar here.

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Ego is a bubble. Instead of bursting it and seeing what all lies outside, we invest most of our energy protecting it.” — Ankur Warikoo

⏳ One Minute NLP

From Problems to Outcomes

When something goes wrong, most people get stuck asking, “Why is this happening?” or “Who’s to blame?” That keeps the focus on the problem.

In NLP, we shift the frame to outcome thinking. Instead of circling around what’s wrong, ask: “What do I want instead?” and “What’s the first step I can take toward it?”

Notice the difference. Problem thinking feels heavy and draining. Outcome thinking feels lighter, more possible, more energising.

Next time you catch yourself stuck in the problem, pause. Picture the outcome you want—see it, hear it, feel it. Then move one step closer.

Because in NLP, energy flows where attention goes—and attention on outcomes creates momentum and change.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Strength or Faith?

In 1701, when the enemies planned to send a drunken elephant to smash Lohgarh Fort, Guru Gobind Singh Ji smiled and said, “I too have an intoxicated elephant—Duni Chand. Tomorrow, he will fight their elephant.”

Duni Chand was tall, muscular, and strong as an ox. Yet that night, fear consumed him. “I can fight men, not an elephant,” he thought. Doubt broke him from within. Attempting to flee the fort, he slipped, broke his leg, and vanished from the battlefield.

The next morning, as the enemy’s elephant advanced, the Sikhs asked, half-joking, “Maharaj, your elephant has already run away. Who will fight now?”

Guruji pointed to the slender Bhai Bachittar Singh. Not built like Duni Chand, but burning with faith. With folded hands, he said, “Maharaj, if you are with me, I fear nothing—not even Indra’s Airavat.”

Armed with Guruji’s spear, he rode out like a lion, struck the beast’s forehead, and turned it back upon its own army.

One warrior had muscles but no faith—he fell before the battle began. The other had faith that turned frailty into ferocity—and he won.

✨ Meta Magic Moment

Strength without faith collapses, but faith turns even the smallest into a lion.

📖 Hook from the Book

“We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.” — Lori Gottlieb, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

🎬 Movie Motivation

“You should never regret the things you do. You should only regret the things you don’t do.” This dialogue from the movie My Oxford Year focuses on action over hesitation – behavioural flexibility creates new choices.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Get the complete playlist in progress: 100 Days to Enter 2026 as a New You

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach

Welcome to Episode #133 of NLP Around You. 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Metaphors can make a mental shift from battleground to playground.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

For your daily dose of Thoughtful Thoughts, get your Thoughtful Calendar here.

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“Emotional debt has killed more people than financial debt ever will.” — Ankur Warikoo

⏳ One Minute NLP

Anchoring Calm in Chaos

Think of a time you felt completely calm—maybe sitting by the sea, or breathing deeply after a good day. Close your eyes and step back into that memory. See what you saw, hear what you heard, feel the calm filling your body.

Now, while that calm is at its peak, press your thumb and forefinger together. Repeat this a few times with the same memory. What you’re doing is creating an anchor—a physical trigger linked to that emotional state.

Next time you’re in chaos—before a meeting, in traffic, or in a heated moment—fire the anchor. Touch your thumb and forefinger together, and let that calm return.

With NLP, you don’t need to wait for calm to find you—you can call it up on demand.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Do you know how to fail?

The notification blinked on his screen – two words that sliced deeper than he expected.

“Not Selected.”

He stared at it, confused. His résumé was solid. His track record spotless. Every role he had taken on, he had delivered with excellence. So why not him?

Driven by both disappointment and curiosity, he walked straight to the HR’s desk.

“I don’t understand,” he said, trying to keep his voice steady. “My experience is better than most candidates here. I’ve excelled in every opportunity I’ve ever received. What more are you looking for?”

The HR smiled politely, then leaned forward. Her words landed heavier than rejection itself.

“Sir, this is a startup. We just secured funding, and yes, we’re looking for experienced people. But here’s the catch, experience isn’t just about success. It’s also about failure. You’ve never failed. And because you’ve never failed, we don’t know how you’ll react when things fall apart, because here, they will. Startups don’t just need achievers; they need survivors. People who know what it feels like to fall flat, get back up, and keep going. That’s the kind of experience we need. In a startup, the real success is not always winning, but knowing how to handle the failure.”

For the first time in his career, his greatest pride, his spotless record, suddenly felt like his biggest blind spot.

✨ Meta Magic Moment
Isn’t it strange how we often chase a flawless record, believing it will make us invincible—when in reality, what makes us truly resilient is the crack, the stumble, the scar? Success can make you confident, but only failure can make you unshakeable. Perhaps the question isn’t, “How do I avoid failure?” but rather, “How do I learn to dance with it and still keep moving forward?”

📖 Hook from the Book

“This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something.” — Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

🎬 Movie Motivation

“Just because something is fleeting doesn’t mean it’s not meaningful.” This dialogue from the movie My Oxford Year reframes short experiences as powerful anchors that shape lasting meaning.

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

Your W3 Coach