Mehernosh Randeria

How Two NLPs Are Shaping the Future of Communication

by Mehernosh Randeria | Feb 4, 2025 | W3 Blog

It was a rainy evening in London, and the city’s infamous drizzle had turned into a steady downpour. Inside a warmly lit co-working café near Covent Garden, the chatter of entrepreneurs and the soft hum of laptops filled the air. Amidst the bustle, two distinct figures found themselves seated at the same table by chance—or perhaps by design. One was a thoughtful humanist with a flair for emotional intelligence, the other a precise technologist with a digital edge. They introduced themselves, and the conversation began.

Natural Language Processing (NLP): What a coincidence that we both ended up here. It seems the universe loves irony — two NLPs, often confused, now face to face.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP): (chuckling) Indeed! It’s rare for someone to think we might have anything in common, given how different we are. But perhaps this is the perfect opportunity to compare notes. What brings you here?

Natural Language Processing: I was invited to a conference nearby—talking about how machines are improving conversational AI and translation systems. It’s fascinating work. You?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: I just wrapped up a workshop on communication and personal transformation. Helping people unlock their potential through better self-awareness and emotional alignment.

Natural Language Processing: That sounds powerful. It seems we both work with communication, though your focus is the human mind, and mine is more… machine-oriented.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Exactly. I work with individuals, teaching them to change their thought patterns, behaviours, and emotional states. Take reframing, for example. It’s all about shifting perspective to turn challenges into opportunities.

Natural Language Processing: Hmm. That reminds me of sentiment analysis. When users leave feedback like, “This product is a disaster!” I help systems identify the tone — negative in this case — and guide the next steps to respond appropriately. It’s like reframing digitally.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Interesting! It seems we both deal with perception, but while I help humans reshape their inner dialogue, you are training machines to understand and respond to external dialogue. So tell me — how do you teach machines to make sense of human language?

Natural Language Processing: Oh, it’s quite complex. Machines rely on algorithms and vast datasets to find patterns in text. For instance, when someone says, “I’m banking on you,” I analyse the context to understand they are not talking about a financial institution but trust. It’s all about probabilities and context.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Context is everything, isn’t it? I teach people to pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues. Someone saying “I’m fine” with a slouched posture often isn’t fine at all.

Natural Language Processing: Sounds like you focus on the nuance that machines still struggle with — emotions, tone, and body language. I envy that ability. Machines may recognise patterns, but they lack the empathy you bring to the table.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: True, but empathy alone isn’t always enough. Your speed and precision are enviable. Imagine if we combined forces. What if my reframing techniques could integrate into AI tools to help users manage stress or improve mental health?

Natural Language Processing: Now, that’s a thought. Imagine AI-powered apps using your principles to help people shift their perspectives. Perhaps a chatbot that offers reframing prompts when someone shares a negative thought.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: That could be revolutionary — using technology to democratise access to personal growth. But enough about work. Do you ever feel misunderstood?

Natural Language Processing: Constantly! People assume I’m this omnipotent force that understands language. But really, I’m just good at spotting patterns. Machines don’t feel or truly understand — they just simulate it. What about you?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Oh, where do I begin? Some call me a pseudoscience, others think I’m just about positive thinking. But there’s so much more — anchoring, modelling excellence, understanding behavioural patterns. It’s science blended with art.

Natural Language Processing: Isn’t it ironic? We’re both deeply rooted in language and understanding, yet often misunderstood ourselves. But that’s what makes this meeting serendipitous. Perhaps it’s time to redefine how people perceive us.

As the rain continued to patter against the café windows, the two NLPs leaned forward, their conversation growing deeper. By the time the café began to empty, they were already imagining a future where the human mind and machine intelligence collaborated in harmony.

It’s not every day that Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Natural Language Processing meet, but when they do, it sparks a fascinating discussion. Despite their differences, both NLPs share a mission: to decode, understand, and improve communication—whether it’s between humans or between humans and machines.

So, which NLP sparks your curiosity? And how do you see them shaping the future of communication? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know

by Mehernosh Randeria | Feb 1, 2025 | NLP Around You

Thoughtful Thought

“What follows your planning could either be Execution or Excuses.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“The worst fault of human beings is the preoccupation with others’ faults.” – Kahlil Gibran

One Minute NLP – Negotiation

Negotiation isn’t about winning or losing; it’s about finding common ground. In NLP, we see negotiation as an interplay of perspectives—yours, theirs, and the neutral space in between. To succeed, start by building rapport. People are more likely to collaborate when they feel understood and respected.

Listen actively to uncover not just what they want, but why they want it. The “why” often reveals shared goals or opportunities for creative solutions. Use language patterns like reframing to turn “problems” into “possibilities.” For instance, instead of focusing on a disagreement, you can explore how it opens up space for innovation.

Stay flexible — remember the NLP presupposition: the person with the greatest flexibility controls the system. When you are adaptable, you can pivot strategies to meet mutual needs.

Negotiation is less about convincing and more about connecting. When both sides feel heard, you’re not just closing a deal—you’re building trust and setting the stage for future collaboration.

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Meta Magic – An Illusion of Reality

Shweta covered a distance of 10 km in one hour.

Akash covered the same distance in one and a half hours.

Which of the two is faster and healthier?

Most likely, our answer will be Shweta.

Now what if you come to know that Shweta covered this distance on a prepared track, while Akash did it by walking on a sandy path?

Then our answer will be Akash.

Now what if you come to know that Shweta is 50 years old, while Akash is 25 years old?

Then our answer will be Shweta again.

Now what if you come to know that Akash’s weight is 140 kgs, while Shweta’s weight is 65 kgs.

Then our answer will be Akash.

As we learn more about Akash and Shweta, our opinions and judgments about who is better will change.

The reality of life is also similar. Remember: YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW. Opportunities vary. Life is different. Resources differ. Problems change. Solutions are different.

My question to you is: Where in your life are you forming opinions very superficially and hastily, simply because you don’t know what you don’t know?.

Hook from the Book

“Every person is just an obstacle until you try to understand them.” Trevor Noah, Into the Uncut Grass

Movie Motivation

“Apna time aayega!” Translated to: “Our time will come!”

This line from Gully Boy encourages maintaining hope and belief in one’s abilities, a key to overcoming challenges and achieving success in NLP.

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How Artificial is this Intelligence?

by Mehernosh Randeria | Jan 27, 2025 | W3 Blog

If there’s one buzzword that stirs up equal parts excitement and apprehension, it’s AI – Artificial Intelligence. For some, it’s a fascinating leap into the future. For others, it feels like a threat looming over the sanctity of human creativity. But is that really true?

As an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Coach, I’ve always been fascinated by the power of words. The language we use frames our beliefs and shapes our reality. And in the case of AI, I believe the resistance doesn’t come from the technology itself but from one specific word: artificial.

The Problem with “Artificial”

Think about it. The term “artificial” often carries negative connotations. Artificial jewellery? Fake. Artificial branded goods? Counterfeit. Artificial sweeteners? Not as good as the real thing. Humans naturally gravitate towards authenticity, and the word “artificial” feels inherently detached, even untrustworthy.

When we call this remarkable technological advancement “Artificial Intelligence,” it’s no surprise that some people perceive it as a substitute, even a competitor, to genuine human intelligence. For many people, this framing can feel like a challenge to their originality and imagination.

AI: A Partner, Not a Rival

But here’s the thing: AI doesn’t diminish creativity; it amplifies it. Your creativity is the foundation that extracts and guides the potential of AI. Whether you’re generating ideas, solving problems, or exploring new possibilities, AI acts as a powerful ally, not an adversary. It’s a tool that mirrors your intentions and augments your capabilities.

So, what if we shifted the narrative? What if we reframed the “A” in AI?

From Artificial to Augmented, Amplified, and More

Words matter, and the way we talk about AI can transform how we think about it. Let’s ditch “Artificial” and explore alternatives:

Augmented Intelligence: Highlights how AI extends and enhances human intelligence.
Added Intelligence: Emphasises that AI is an additional layer of support.
Amplified Intelligence: Focuses on AI’s ability to scale creativity and innovation.
Adaptive Intelligence: Suggests AI’s flexibility to evolve and align with our needs.
Aligned Intelligence: Reinforces the idea of AI working in harmony with human goals.

Reframing AI in this way not only shifts perspectives but also dissolves the mental barriers holding people back from embracing its potential. When we stop seeing AI as artificial and start viewing it as an extension of our own intelligence, we unlock new ways of collaboration.

Breaking the Creativity Myth

One of the biggest myths about AI is that it stifles creativity. But in reality, it’s your creativity that determines how effectively you use AI. Think of it as a paintbrush – the brush itself doesn’t create art; the artist does. AI can suggest ideas, streamline workflows, and even open doors to unexplored avenues, but it’s your imagination that drives the process.

Let’s Redefine AI Together

It’s time to change the conversation around AI. By reframing its meaning, we can transform hesitation into curiosity and scepticism into opportunity. And who knows? Perhaps a small shift in perspective is all it takes for someone to see AI not as a competitor but as a creative companion.

What do you think? Should we start a movement to redefine AI? If so, let’s coin a hashtag and make it official. How about #RedefiningAI or #AIAmplified?

Let’s move beyond the artificial and embrace the possibilities of augmented, amplified, and aligned intelligence. The future is ours to co-create – with a little help from AI.

#RedefiningAI #AIAmplified #AmplifiedIntelligence

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Who Do You Think You Are?

by Mehernosh Randeria | Jan 25, 2025 | NLP Around You

Thoughtful Thought

“The Good News is that Mind is a Meaning Making Machine. The Bad News is that Mind is a Meaning Making Machine.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“Change is never a matter of ability, but a matter of drive/reason.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – Values: Your Inner Compass

Values are like the GPS of your life – they guide your decisions, shape your behaviours, and define what truly matters to you. In NLP, we see values as the emotional drivers behind everything you do. Whether it’s freedom, connection, growth, or success, your values influence your priorities and how you spend your time.

When your actions align with your values, you feel fulfilled. But when there’s a mismatch, frustration and conflict arise. For example, if you deeply value family but spend most of your time at work, you might feel unbalanced.

The key is clarity. Ask yourself, “What’s most important to me?” Write down your top values and rank them. Then reflect: Are your current choices honouring these values?

When you align your life with your values, decisions become easier, and life feels more purposeful. Remember, your values aren’t set in stone—they evolve as you grow. Stay curious about them, and let them guide you towards a life that feels truly meaningful.

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Meta Magic – Who Do You Think You Are?

Mr. Kuber, a man wrapped in wealth and power, was accustomed to others bending to his influence. However, the whispers of Swami Dayanand’s quiet charisma and devoted followers ignited a flicker of envy within him. Driven by curiosity and pride, Kuber decided to meet the enigmatic sage.

Beneath the shade of a sprawling tree, Swami sat cross-legged on a simple mattress, radiating calm as a crowd of seekers surrounded him. The air hummed with tranquility – a stark contrast to Kuber’s restless ego. He waited, or at least tried to, until impatience got the better of him. Striding forward, he interrupted sharply, “Do you know who I am?”

Unperturbed, Swami folded his hands with grace. “Sir, whoever you may be, I must first attend to the one before me. Please wait.”

Kuber’s temper flared, his anger igniting like dry leaves in a blaze. “Do you even realize what I think of you?” he demanded.

Swami’s voice remained as steady as a flowing stream. “What you think of me is yours to hold. It does not alter my purpose to serve equally.”

The sage’s words doused Kuber’s fiery outburst, leaving him simmering. “You fraud,” Kuber bellowed. “You’re fooling these people with your honey-coated lies!”

Swami responded with a gentle smile, his eyes deep wells of compassion. “That is your perspective, sir, and I respect it. You are whole and complete, just as you are.”

Misinterpreting the sage’s humility as flattery, Kuber returned home, his pride falsely inflated. Over dinner, he narrated the encounter to his father, a wise ex-politician.

“Son,” his father said, shaking his head, “Swami did not praise you. He simply reflected his essence while you revealed yours. We see the world not as it is, but as we are. If you wish to change the world, begin by changing within.”

Kuber fell silent, the truth landing like a pebble sending ripples through the still waters of his soul.

Hook From The Book

“The greatest illusion,” said the mole, “is that life should be perfect.” ― Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, The Fox and The Horse

Movie Motivation

“Mann ka ho toh accha, aur agar mann ka na ho toh zyada accha.” Translated to “If things go your way, it’s good. If they don’t, it’s even better.” This line from the movie Rockstar reminds us to reframe challenges as opportunities for better things, an essential NLP principle.

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Life is an Echo

by Mehernosh Randeria | Jan 18, 2025 | NLP Around You

Thoughtful Thought

“Being in sales is not about selling your soul; it is about putting your soul in what you sell.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still ahead of those who are not even trying.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – Beliefs: The Blueprint of Your Reality

Your beliefs shape your world. Think of them as the lenses through which you view life. Whether you believe “I can’t” or “I’m unstoppable,” you’re likely to prove yourself right. That’s the power of beliefs—they act as self-fulfilling prophecies.

In NLP, we understand that beliefs are not fixed; they’re patterns of thought you’ve reinforced over time. The exciting part? You can change them. If a belief is holding you back, challenge it. Ask yourself, “Is this belief true?” and, more importantly, “Is it serving me?” Replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.

For instance, shift “I’ll never succeed” to “Every step I take brings me closer to success.” As you repeat and act on this new belief, it becomes your reality. Beliefs aren’t facts—they’re choices. Choose the ones that empower you.

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Meta Magic – The Real Picture of Peace

John cherished his morning routine — climbing a mountain in Manali, his beloved city. It wasn’t just cardio; it was a communion with nature.

One day, his 8-year-old son Jacob begged to join him. John hesitated, unsure about Jacob’s safety, but the boy’s persistence wore him down.

As they ascended, the fresh pine-scented air filled their lungs, and the rustle of leaves accompanied their steps. A boulder blocked their path. John, an experienced climber, sidestepped it with ease, but Jacob, lost in awe of the mountain’s beauty, stumbled and fell. His sharp cry echoed across the peaks, startling him.

“Who are you?” Jacob yelled into the vastness, anger lacing his voice. The question boomed back, mocking him.

“Shut up, you idiot! I hate you!” he shouted, his frustration mounting. The mountains only hurled his words back louder.

John, watching from a distance, approached his son, who now stood with slumped shoulders. “Dad, who is this invisible bully? He’s taunting me! I want to make him stop,” Jacob complained.

John knelt beside him, a knowing smile on his face. “Watch this,” he said softly. Turning to the peaks, he called out, “I love you!”

The mountains responded in kind, their echo tender and warm. Jacob’s confusion deepened. “Why did it answer you with kindness?”

John placed a hand on his son’s shoulder. “That’s the mountain’s echo. It reflects what you give it. Life works the same way. Speak with love, and love will find you. Speak with anger, and it’ll follow you back.”

My question- What echo are you creating in your life?

Hook From The Book

“There’s little point in killing an idea by saying it might fail. Any idea might fail. If you’re doing anything worthwhile at all, you’ll suffer a dozen failures. Start failing so you can start succeeding.” ― Harry Beckwith, Selling the Invisible: A Field Guide to Modern Marketing

Movie Motivation

“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.” This line from the movie Fight Club reflects letting go of attachments to achieve freedom and clarity. NLP emphasizes the importance of mental flexibility and overcoming fears to unlock potential.

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