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Welcome to the 152nd Episode of NLP Around You.

 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Life becomes lively when you add life to it.” — Thoughtfully Yours

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“I am just a little child, looking at a huge library of books in many languages… the human mind… cannot grasp the universe” — Albert Einstein

⏳ One Minute NLP – The Power of Language Precision

Have you noticed how vague language creates vague thinking?

When someone says, “Everything is going wrong,” is it really everything? Or just one thing? In NLP, we learn that imprecise language can exaggerate problems and distort reality.

Do this: the next time you hear yourself using words like always, never, everyone, no one, pause and question them. Ask, “Specifically what?” or “Compared to what?”

As you become more precise with your words, your thinking sharpens. Problems shrink to their real size. Solutions become clearer.

Language isn’t just how you describe your world—it’s how you construct it.

When you refine your language, you refine your perception. And when perception becomes clearer, choices become smarter.

 

🔮 Meta Magic

When Competence Replaces Conviction

He walked in five minutes early.

Laptop bag placed neatly beside the chair.
Phone turned face down.

Senior corporate leader.
Twenty years in the system.
Promotions earned. Not inherited.

And yet… something was not sitting right.

“I’m dependable,” he said.
“I deliver. I don’t miss deadlines. I don’t create drama.”

Then came a pause. The kind that says more than sentences.

“But somehow… I’m not being considered for stretch roles anymore. The high-visibility projects go elsewhere.”

We did not jump to strategy.
We slowed down and watched the pattern.

Under pressure, he became perfectly reasonable.
He diffused tension.
He absorbed ambiguity.
He waited for alignment before offering his view.

What he proudly called professionalism
had quietly become self-erasure.

I allowed the silence to stretch.

Then I asked,

“Have you ever been in a meeting where you knew the answer… but waited for someone senior to say it first?”

A smile. The honest kind.

“And when they said exactly what you were thinking… what did you feel?”

A breath.

“Relief. And irritation.”

I nodded.

“Picture a traffic signal stuck on yellow,” I said.
“It’s not red. It’s not green. So cars slow down. They hesitate. They miss their moment.”

He leaned back. Listening differently now.

“That yellow,” I continued,
“is what happens when competence replaces conviction.”

Somewhere in his nervous system, visibility had been coded as risk.
Speaking early felt like exposure.
Waiting felt safe.

But safety, repeated often enough, becomes invisibility.

The shift did not come as a tactic.
It came as permission.

Leadership is not the absence of friction.
It is the willingness to tolerate the discomfort of being seen before consensus forms.

So let me ask you.

In your workplace,
are you waiting for the green signal?

Or are you parked in yellow,
mistaking caution for credibility?

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” — Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“There is no secret ingredient. It’s just you.” This dialogue from Kung Fu Panda reminds us that everyone has all the resources that they need.

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Your strengths aren’t the problem. Overusing them is.

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🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Success starts with the belief that you can succeed.” — Thoughtfully Yours

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” — Steve Jobs

⏳ One Minute NLP – Owning Your Emotional Space

Not every emotion you feel actually belongs to you. Sometimes, you’re carrying the mood of the room, the stress of others, or expectations that aren’t yours to hold. NLP helps you recognise where you end and others begin.

Here’s a simple check-in. Ask yourself, “Is this emotion truly mine?” If the answer feels like no, imagine gently placing that emotion outside your personal space—like setting down a heavy bag you didn’t need to carry.

Now, reclaim your centre. Notice your breathing. Feel your feet on the ground. Choose the emotional state you want to stand in—calm, clarity, confidence.

Owning your emotional space doesn’t mean shutting people out. It means staying grounded while staying connected.

In NLP, emotional maturity isn’t about feeling less. It’s about choosing what you carry—and what you let go.

 

🔮 Meta Magic

The Boy Who Watched a Baby Walk

The doctor had told his mother, “He may not survive the night.” Seventeen-year-old Milton lay still on the bed. Completely paralysed. Unable to move a single muscle except his eyes.

He heard the doctor’s words. And instead of fear, he made a simple request. “Turn my bed toward the window. I want to see the sunset.”

He survived that night. But survival was only the beginning.

For months, he lay in that bed. Helpless. Silent. Immobile. No phone. No books. No distractions.

Just a window, a ceiling, and a house full of movement around him. So he began to watch. He watched his parents. He watched his sisters. He watched how people spoke, how they walked, how they sighed, how they laughed.

And then one day, he noticed something else. His baby sister.

She was learning to crawl. Then to stand. Then to wobble. Then to fall. Then to stand again.

Every attempt was clumsy. Every step uncertain. Every movement full of trial and error.

And as he watched her struggle to walk, a thought struck him.

“If she can learn to walk, maybe I can learn it again.”

So he began to remember- Not with his muscles, but with his mind.

He imagined what it felt like to move a finger. To tighten a muscle. To shift his weight.

Hours turned into days. Days turned into months.

One day, a finger twitched. Then a hand moved. Then an arm.

Slowly, painfully, impossibly, he taught himself how to walk again. Step by step. Like a child.

That boy grew up to become Dr. Milton Erickson, one of the most influential therapists in the world.

All because he learned one powerful truth: The mind remembers more than the body forgets.

Sometimes, transformation does not come from learning something new. It comes from remembering what your unconscious already knows.

So the next time you feel stuck, don’t ask, “Why can’t I change?”

Ask a gentler question: “What part of me already knows the next step?”

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“Never be cool. Never try to be cool. Never worry what the cool people think. Head for the warm people. Life is warmth. You’ll be cool when you’re dead.” — Matt Haig, Notes on a Nervous Planet

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“Jo regret karte hai woh baith kar biography likhte hai, history nahi.” [Translated to “Those who regret their decisions sit down and write their biographies, not history.”] This dialogue from the upcoming series Family Business reminds us about the power of decisive action over regret.

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

How Small NLP Shifts in Thinking can Dramatically Improve Your Emotional Control

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Your W3 Coach

Mehernosh

Welcome to Episode #149 of your favourite weekly newsletter NLP Around You!

 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“A timeless self-evolution sometimes takes time.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off of you.” — Maya Angelou

⏳ One Minute NLP – Clearing Decision Fatigue 

Ever reach a point in the day where even simple choices feel exhausting? What to reply? What to eat? What to do next? That’s decision fatigue. In NLP, we know the mind tires not from effort, but from too many open loops. Each unfinished decision quietly drains energy.

Here’s a simple reset. Pause and ask, “What is the one decision that will make the biggest difference right now?” Not five things. Just one. Decide it. Act on it. Close the loop.

Next, simplify future choices. Decide in advance. What time you work? What you eat on busy days? How you start your morning? Fewer decisions means more mental space.

Notice how clarity returns when the noise drops. Calm replaces overwhelm. Momentum comes back. In NLP, power doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from deciding better, with less effort.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Is Your Boat Becoming Your Burden?

A man on a long journey comes to a wide, rushing river blocking his path.

With no way around it and no bridge in sight, he chops down a tree and uses the wood to build a small boat.

The boat is remarkably sturdy, and the man is able to navigate across the river safely.

Before walking on to continue his journey, the man has a thought:

“What if I come across more rushing rivers that I need to cross? This boat will really come in handy.”

So he attaches the small boat to a pair of straps and begins walking, dragging it behind him, just in case it proves useful later in the journey. After an hour, he has made little progress and is exhausted, as dragging the heavy boat over the bumpy terrain is very difficult.

It becomes clear. Holding onto the boat on the other side of the river was a mistake.

Throughout our own journey, we build “boats” to navigate the various rushing rivers that we encounter. These boats help us, even save us, in those moments.

But sometimes, we choose to hold onto those boats far beyond the banks of the river, far beyond their usefulness in our lives.

What boats are you still holding onto? What tools, habits, experiences, relationships, or mindsets served you once but no longer provide value in your current terrain?

– Story shared by Hariram Krishnan

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“I think we talk about happiness all wrong. As if it’s this fixed state we’re going to reach. Like we’ll just be able to live there, forever. But that’s not my experience with happiness. For me, it comes and goes. It shows up and then disappears like a bubble.” — Alison Espach, The Wedding People

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“Carpe Diem. Seize the day, boys.” This dialogue from the movie Dead Poets Society simply reminds us that attention placed on the present expands choice and power.

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Best NLP Techniques for Leading Meetings with Authority and Influence

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Welcome to Episode #148 of your favourite weekly newsletter NLP Around You!

 

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Sometimes you need to slow down in order to speed up.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“To go wrong in one’s own way is better than to go right in someone else’s.” — Fyodor Dostoevsky

⏳ One Minute NLP – Building Resilience 

Resilience isn’t about being tough all the time. It’s about bouncing back without losing yourself. In NLP, resilience begins with how you interpret what happens to you.

When something goes wrong, notice the first meaning you give it. Is it “This always happens to me,” or “This is uncomfortable, but manageable”? That meaning shapes your emotional response.

Try this shift. Ask, “What part of this can I handle right now?” Not the whole situation. Just the next part. Your nervous system relaxes when the task feels contained.

Then reconnect with a resourceful memory. Recall a time you got through something difficult. Feel that strength again. Let it remind you that you’ve done hard things before.

Resilience grows quietly through small reframes and steady self-trust. In NLP, it’s not about avoiding life’s knocks. It’s about learning how to stand up with a little more ease each time.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Are You Waiting for a Miracle?

Leo was a hopeful boy with unshakable faith, and very weak report cards.

Whenever he was asked to study harder, he would smile and say,
“Don’t worry. God is kind. God will help me.”

God, however, stayed silent during exams. Leo failed again and again.

One day, a monk arrived in the village, known for turning comfortable lives upside down. He called all the youngsters to gather beneath the banyan tree. Leo’s father insisted he go.

The monk began a story.

“There was once a farmer with fertile land,” he said, “except for one enormous rock sitting right in the middle of his field. It blocked growth and stole potential.”

The farmer prayed every day,
“God, please remove this rock.”

Years passed. The rock didn’t move.

One day, a traveller stopped, listened, and handed the farmer a hammer.
“Why don’t you start?” he asked. “One strike at a time.”

The farmer laughed. A hammer against a mountain? Still, the next morning, he tried. Nothing happened. Days passed. Weeks passed. Then cracks appeared. Months later, the rock broke apart. The field flourished.

The monk fell silent.

Leo felt the story land exactly where it was meant to.

He understood:
God doesn’t remove stones. God gives tools.

That evening, Leo opened his books, not waiting for miracles, but creating momentum. One page. One effort. One day at a time.

And slowly, the biggest rock in his life began to move.

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“We always think there’s enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then something happens and then we stand there holding on to words like ‘if’.” — Fredrik Backman, A Man Called Ove

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“Don’t ever let somebody tell you you can’t do something.” This dialogue from the movie The Pursuit of Happyness simply reminds us that external voices become internal beliefs only when you accept them.

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Makar Sankranti – A Gentle Invitation to Fly Higher

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Welcome to Episode #147 of your favourite weekly newsletter NLP Around You!

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🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Anger asks “why me?”. Curiosity asks “what now?”” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“The wise man never says everything he thinks, but thinks everything he says” — Aristotle

⏳ One Minute NLP – Letting Go of Control

We often think control equals safety. So we plan more, think more, and try harder. Yet the more tightly we grip, the more tense we feel.

In NLP, we learn that control and choice are not the same thing. Control comes from fear. Choice comes from trust. When you relax control, you don’t lose power. You gain flexibility.

Try this shift. Instead of asking, “How do I make this happen?” ask, “What’s the best next response available to me?”Feel the difference. One is pressure. The other is presence.

Notice how your body softens when you stop forcing outcomes. Your breathing slows. Your thinking opens up. Solutions appear where effort once blocked them.

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It means allowing life to meet you halfway. And in NLP, that balance is where calm confidence lives.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Gold or Growth – What would you chase?

A young man spent years mastering difficult things – quietly, patiently, for no audience at all.

First, he learned to walk on stilts.
He fell, rose, bruised himself, and learned again.
Then he taught himself to juggle – starting with stones, moving to knives, and finally to seven gleaming swords.

When his body had learned balance, and his mind had learned focus, he combined the two.
He walked on stilts… and juggled seven swords at once.

Only then did he walk into the royal palace.

Before the king, he moved forward and backward, high above the marble floor, swords flashing in the air like sparks. The court fell silent. The king rose, astonished, and placed a heavy bag of gold at the young man’s feet.

Word spread quickly.

Another young man heard the tale and thought, If that skill earned gold, mine will earn more.
He trained himself to dance on the back of a galloping horse; spinning, leaping, dazzling the eye. Certain of his reward, he went to the palace and demanded an audience.

The king watched briefly… then waved him away.
“Leave,” he said. “And do not return.”

Shattered, the young man went to a sage and poured out his anger.

The sage listened and smiled gently.

“The first young man practised for mastery,” he said.
“You practised for reward.”

“The first forgot himself in the craft, so the world remembered him.
You remembered the reward, so the craft forgot you.”

And in that moment, the young man understood:

When skill is pursued for gold, it loses its shine.
When mastery is pursued for its own sake, rewards follow quietly behind.

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“As Thoreau wrote, ‘It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.’” — Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“It ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.” This dialogue from the movie Rocky reminds us that resilience is a state. Meaning, not circumstances, determines momentum.

 

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

New Year. New You. Really?

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Happy New Year 2026

Welcome to Episode #146 of NLP Around You. 

May 2026 bring you
– Wealth that supports your freedom,
– Wisdom that guides your choices,
– Wellness that sustains your journey.

May this year be less about rushing into resolutions
and more about living with clarity, calm, and intention.

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Wishing you a year of meaningful progress, quiet confidence, and steady fulfilment.

🧠 Thoughtful Thought

“Creativity thrives where judgement sleeps.” — Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

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💬 NLP Quote Corner

“It takes something more than intelligence to act intelligently.” — Fyodor Dostoyevsky

⏳ One Minute NLP – State Before Strategy

Ever noticed how even the best plan falls apart when you’re stressed, tired, or irritated? NLP reminds us of a simple truth. State comes before strategy.

If your emotional state is off, your thinking narrows. You miss options. You react instead of responding. But when your state is calm, confident, or curious, better strategies appear naturally.

So before asking, “What should I do?” ask, “What state am I in right now?”

If needed, change it. Stand up. Breathe deeply. Smile. Move your body. Shift your posture.

Once your state changes, your perspective changes. And with a better perspective, better decisions follow.

In NLP, we don’t fix problems only with smarter thinking. We start by upgrading the state of mind doing the thinking.

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🔮 Meta Magic

Ten Steps are Enough

In a quiet village, there lived a young farmer who spent his days working in the fields at the foot of a towering mountain. Every morning, as he tilled the soil, his eyes drifted upward to its peak. One thought returned again and again: One day, I will climb it. I will watch the sun rise from there.

One evening, he finally decided. He would begin the trek after sunset so that by dawn, he could stand at the summit. With quiet determination, he picked up his Petromax lamp and started climbing as the light faded from the sky.

A few hours later, darkness wrapped itself tightly around the mountain. The petromax lamp glowed, but not enough. Shadows stretched. The path blurred. Doubt crept in.
Is this light enough? he wondered. Should I go back?

Confused and uneasy, he sat down on a rock, weighing risk against retreat.

That was when he noticed an old man, nearly seventy-five, walking steadily uphill. In his hand was nothing but a small chimney lamp. Its flame was faint, yet the man moved with surprising speed and confidence.

The young farmer stared, stunned. It’s pitch dark… and this old man is climbing faster than me?

He called out, “Uncle, where are you going in such darkness with that tiny lamp?”

The old man smiled without stopping.
“To the hilltop, son.”

The young man was incredulous. Here I am with a powerful lamp, confused and afraid… and he’s climbing with that?

Sensing his disbelief, the old man laughed.
“With this lamp,” he said, lifting it gently, “I can see ten steps ahead. I take those ten steps, and then I see ten more. That’s enough to reach the top by morning.”

He glanced at the young man’s brighter light and added softly,
“You can see twenty-five steps ahead… yet you’re sitting here doubting the light you already have.”

And with that, the old man continued upward, step by illuminated step, leaving behind a lesson glowing brighter than any lamp.

 

📖 Hook from the Book

“No one tells you before you procreate that the hardest thing about being a good parent is that you never feel like one.” — Fredrik Backman, The Winners

🎬 Movie Motivation 

“Jo dikhta hai, wahi sach nahi hota.” Translated to “What you see is not necessarily the truth.”

This dialogue from the movie Drishyam reminds us that the map is not the territory. 

 

🏆 Winning Post of the Week

Day 101 – The Journey Continues

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