What Pillar Are You Holding?

Welcome to the 89th episode of NLP Around You.

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Thoughtful Thought

“Self-Belief is the anti-dote to self-sabotage.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“Focus on where you want to go, not on what you fear.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – The Law of Requisite Variety

The Law of Requisite Variety states: “The system with the most flexibility controls the system.” In NLP, this means that in any interaction or situation, the person who can adapt the most has the greatest influence.

Think of it as a chess game: the player with more strategies and options is likely to win. In relationships, business, or personal growth, flexibility is your superpower. If a plan doesn’t work, instead of persisting, adapt your approach.

For example, if you are communicating with someone who doesn’t respond to logic, try appealing to their emotions or using visuals. In problem-solving, explore alternative solutions rather than sticking to one rigid path.

This principle encourages creativity, resilience, and an open mind. The more adaptable you are, the more effectively you can navigate challenges and create positive outcomes.

Remember, the power lies in your ability to change and adjust — not in controlling others, but in mastering yourself!

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Meta Magic – Which Pillar Are You Holding?

One bright morning, Raman felt a stirring in his soul and resolved to visit the renowned sage of his city, celebrated for unraveling the mysteries of spiritual freedom and guiding others to do the same. With curiosity crackling in his chest, he approached the sage and inquired, “How can I be truly liberated from life’s endless struggles?”

The sage’s face broke into a serene smile as he rose to his feet, his robes whispering against the floor. Without a word, he motioned for Raman to follow. Leading him to a sturdy, ancient pillar, the sage wrapped his arms tightly around it and clung as if his life depended on it.

Raman’s eyebrows shot up in bafflement. Before he could voice his confusion, the sage let out a theatrical wail, “Help me! Free me from this pillar! Save me from its grasp!”

Raman burst into laughter, his voice echoing through the quiet courtyard. “Respected Guruji,” he exclaimed, “this is absurd! It isn’t the pillar that’s holding you captive—it’s you who refuses to let go of it.”

The sage’s smile deepened, his eyes gleaming with quiet wisdom. “Precisely,” he said. “This pillar represents the problems we face in life. They don’t imprison us — we imprison ourselves by clutching onto them. The key to freedom lies in releasing the pillar and reclaiming your power.”

Now, let me ask you: Are you still holding on to your pillar?

Hook From The Book

“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. M. Scott Peck” ― Penney Peirce, Frequency: The Power of Personal Vibration

Movie Motivation

“I don’t have dreams, I have goals.” This line quoted by the character Harvey Specter in the popular webseries SUITS reflects the NLP principle of goal-setting and clarity. Dreams are abstract, but goals are specific and actionable. NLP emphasizes setting clear, measurable objectives to turn aspirations into achievements.

This Week’s Winning Post

Connection between Expression and Expansion

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