Choose Your Bowl

Welcome to the 88th episode of NLP Around You.

Thoughtful Thought

“Every expression is the expansion of your frequency to the Universe. So co-create wisely.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“People who fail focus on what they have to go through. People who succeed focus on what will it be like in the end.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – The map is not the territory.

“The map is not the territory” is a foundational NLP presupposition reminding us that our mental representations of reality (our maps) are not the same as reality itself (the territory). Each person’s map is shaped by experiences, beliefs, and perceptions, making it unique.

When applied in NLP, this concept fosters understanding and flexibility. For example, when someone disagrees with you, remember they are interpreting the world through their map. Instead of arguing over who’s “right,” explore their perspective.

In practical terms, this presupposition encourages you to question assumptions, improve communication, and embrace diverse viewpoints. By recognizing the difference between perception and reality, you empower yourself to navigate life with more clarity and compassion.

Update your map, but remember — it’s only a guide, not the territory itself!

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Meta Magic – Choose Your Bowl

Sarita often found herself confused about making the right decisions, though she couldn’t quite understand why. Noticing this, her father, Mr. Kumar, decided it was time to impart her a gentle lesson.

One crisp morning, he called her to breakfast. On the table sat two bowls of sweet porridge. One was topped with a dazzling garnish of almonds, while the other appeared plain and unremarkable. Sarita’s lips curled into a small smirk as she reached for the garnished bowl. “This one looks better,” she declared confidently.

As she ate, her confidence wavered. The porridge was delicious, but her eyes darted to her father enjoying the plain bowl. To her surprise, he uncovered four hidden almonds beneath the surface. She stared at her empty bowl and sighed. “Sometimes, what looks better isn’t the best,” her father remarked gently.

The next morning, the scene repeated. This time, Sarita hesitated before choosing. She remembered her father’s words and picked the plain bowl instead. She eagerly dug in, expecting a hidden treasure, but it was empty. Her father chuckled and lifted his bowl—the garnished one—revealing almonds beneath. “Experience teaches,” he said, “but intuition demands we look beyond logic.”

By the third day, Sarita had learned to pause. “Papa,” she said with a small smile, “why don’t you decide?” Her father’s face lit up with approval. He chose the garnished bowl for her and revealed almonds hidden beneath. “You see, my dear,” he said, “life is full of choices, but true richness comes from trust. Humility opens doors where wisdom alone cannot.”

Sarita nodded, the lesson sinking deeper. She knew now that life was more than appearances—or even clever guesses. It was about faith, trust, and a willingness to learn.

So, tell me, if it were you, which bowl would you choose?

Hook From The Book

“The driven, passionate ones give their best on ordinary days and that is why they are extraordinary.” ― Twinkle Khanna, Mrs Funnybones: She’s just like You and a lot like Me.

Movie Motivation

“You have to let it all go, Neo. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind.” This dialogue from the movie The Matrix reflects the importance of eliminating limiting beliefs to unlock one’s full potential. NLP focuses on reprogramming the mind to remove self-imposed limitations.

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