And The Path Emerges

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While we all are busy chasing many algorithms in life, I am sure that this newsletter brings you the algorithm of peace and solace in your life.

Thoughtful Thought of the Week

“Present yourself with the presence of your self.” – Mehernosh Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“Don’t re-open old wounds in order to examine their origins. Leave them healed.”- Richard Bandler

One Minute NLP

“The meaning of the communication is in the response that you get.”

How often have you heard yourself saying: “He/She did not understand what I wanted to say”?

One of the presuppositions in NLP is that the meaning of communication is in the response that you get.

The meaning of the communication is not what you intended to communicate but what actually gets communicated. This presupposition in NLP puts the responsibility on the sender of the communication to ensure that you communicate in a manner that the other person understands as per their understanding or in their language.

We follow this principle automatically when we are trying to communicate with someone who doesn’t understand our language. We attempt to bridge the language barrier by resorting to symbolic gestures or using translators to ensure that the other person understands it in the manner that works for them.

But when it comes to communicating with people who understand our own language, we miss out on the fact that our communication is built by us by applying our own filters of our mind, whereas the other person would be processing it by applying the filters of “their” mind.

So, the next time you find the other person not understanding what you meant, ask yourself: how can I say it differently which strikes the right chord with their model of the world?


And The Path Emerges…

Imagine, you are walking towards a destination, and suddenly there is complete darkness and all you have is a torch, what would you do? Well, you would switch on the torch and move further on the path, right?

Would you worry about where would you end up reaching?

Would you worry about how darker it is going to be ahead?

Well in such situations, wouldn’t it be better to just look at the next step and take it?

You would move further only to the extent of the path that is highlighted by your torch, without bothering about seeing the entire path ahead.

The moment we take the next step in the dark, we beam the torch light a bit further and the path emerges. Step by step, we move ahead on the path that emerges.

To share an interesting incident, when I conducted my first batch of NLP Practitioner, the training manual was not pre-designed. The handouts given out at the end of each class eventually became my Course Manual. So the batch began first, and the path of manual emerged later.

My question for you today is: Which path of your life seems pitch dark as of now? Are you ready to walk that much-needed next step to make the path emerge by itself?

Hook From The Book

“You aim to be something you are not, you will always fail. Aim to be you. Aim to look and act and think like you. Aim to be the truest version of you. Embrace that you-ness. Endorse it. Love it. Work hard at it. And don’t give a second thought when people mock it or ridicule it. Most gossip is envy in disguise”.

Midnight Library by Matt Haig

Movie Motivation

“You mustn’t be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.” – Inception

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Thoughtfully Yours,

Mehernosh Randeria

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