Thoughtful Thought

“The Good News is that Mind is a Meaning Making Machine. The Bad News is that Mind is a Meaning Making Machine.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“Change is never a matter of ability, but a matter of drive/reason.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – Values: Your Inner Compass

Values are like the GPS of your life – they guide your decisions, shape your behaviours, and define what truly matters to you. In NLP, we see values as the emotional drivers behind everything you do. Whether it’s freedom, connection, growth, or success, your values influence your priorities and how you spend your time.

When your actions align with your values, you feel fulfilled. But when there’s a mismatch, frustration and conflict arise. For example, if you deeply value family but spend most of your time at work, you might feel unbalanced.

The key is clarity. Ask yourself, “What’s most important to me?” Write down your top values and rank them. Then reflect: Are your current choices honouring these values?

When you align your life with your values, decisions become easier, and life feels more purposeful. Remember, your values aren’t set in stone—they evolve as you grow. Stay curious about them, and let them guide you towards a life that feels truly meaningful.

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Meta Magic – Who Do You Think You Are?

Mr. Kuber, a man wrapped in wealth and power, was accustomed to others bending to his influence. However, the whispers of Swami Dayanand’s quiet charisma and devoted followers ignited a flicker of envy within him. Driven by curiosity and pride, Kuber decided to meet the enigmatic sage.

Beneath the shade of a sprawling tree, Swami sat cross-legged on a simple mattress, radiating calm as a crowd of seekers surrounded him. The air hummed with tranquility – a stark contrast to Kuber’s restless ego. He waited, or at least tried to, until impatience got the better of him. Striding forward, he interrupted sharply, “Do you know who I am?”

Unperturbed, Swami folded his hands with grace. “Sir, whoever you may be, I must first attend to the one before me. Please wait.”

Kuber’s temper flared, his anger igniting like dry leaves in a blaze. “Do you even realize what I think of you?” he demanded.

Swami’s voice remained as steady as a flowing stream. “What you think of me is yours to hold. It does not alter my purpose to serve equally.”

The sage’s words doused Kuber’s fiery outburst, leaving him simmering. “You fraud,” Kuber bellowed. “You’re fooling these people with your honey-coated lies!”

Swami responded with a gentle smile, his eyes deep wells of compassion. “That is your perspective, sir, and I respect it. You are whole and complete, just as you are.”

Misinterpreting the sage’s humility as flattery, Kuber returned home, his pride falsely inflated. Over dinner, he narrated the encounter to his father, a wise ex-politician.

“Son,” his father said, shaking his head, “Swami did not praise you. He simply reflected his essence while you revealed yours. We see the world not as it is, but as we are. If you wish to change the world, begin by changing within.”

Kuber fell silent, the truth landing like a pebble sending ripples through the still waters of his soul.

Hook From The Book

“The greatest illusion,” said the mole, “is that life should be perfect.” ― Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, The Fox and The Horse

Movie Motivation

“Mann ka ho toh accha, aur agar mann ka na ho toh zyada accha.” Translated to “If things go your way, it’s good. If they don’t, it’s even better.” This line from the movie Rockstar reminds us to reframe challenges as opportunities for better things, an essential NLP principle.

This Week’s Winning Post

8 Possibilities when you say “I am Tired”

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Mehernosh Randeria

NLP Master Trainer and Coach

Thoughtful Thought

“Being in sales is not about selling your soul; it is about putting your soul in what you sell.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still ahead of those who are not even trying.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – Beliefs: The Blueprint of Your Reality

Your beliefs shape your world. Think of them as the lenses through which you view life. Whether you believe “I can’t” or “I’m unstoppable,” you’re likely to prove yourself right. That’s the power of beliefs—they act as self-fulfilling prophecies.

In NLP, we understand that beliefs are not fixed; they’re patterns of thought you’ve reinforced over time. The exciting part? You can change them. If a belief is holding you back, challenge it. Ask yourself, “Is this belief true?” and, more importantly, “Is it serving me?” Replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.

For instance, shift “I’ll never succeed” to “Every step I take brings me closer to success.” As you repeat and act on this new belief, it becomes your reality. Beliefs aren’t facts—they’re choices. Choose the ones that empower you.

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Meta Magic – The Real Picture of Peace

John cherished his morning routine — climbing a mountain in Manali, his beloved city. It wasn’t just cardio; it was a communion with nature.

One day, his 8-year-old son Jacob begged to join him. John hesitated, unsure about Jacob’s safety, but the boy’s persistence wore him down.

As they ascended, the fresh pine-scented air filled their lungs, and the rustle of leaves accompanied their steps. A boulder blocked their path. John, an experienced climber, sidestepped it with ease, but Jacob, lost in awe of the mountain’s beauty, stumbled and fell. His sharp cry echoed across the peaks, startling him.

“Who are you?” Jacob yelled into the vastness, anger lacing his voice. The question boomed back, mocking him.

“Shut up, you idiot! I hate you!” he shouted, his frustration mounting. The mountains only hurled his words back louder.

John, watching from a distance, approached his son, who now stood with slumped shoulders. “Dad, who is this invisible bully? He’s taunting me! I want to make him stop,” Jacob complained.

John knelt beside him, a knowing smile on his face. “Watch this,” he said softly. Turning to the peaks, he called out, “I love you!”

The mountains responded in kind, their echo tender and warm. Jacob’s confusion deepened. “Why did it answer you with kindness?”

John placed a hand on his son’s shoulder. “That’s the mountain’s echo. It reflects what you give it. Life works the same way. Speak with love, and love will find you. Speak with anger, and it’ll follow you back.”

My question- What echo are you creating in your life?

Hook From The Book

“There’s little point in killing an idea by saying it might fail. Any idea might fail. If you’re doing anything worthwhile at all, you’ll suffer a dozen failures. Start failing so you can start succeeding.” ― Harry Beckwith, Selling the Invisible: A Field Guide to Modern Marketing

Movie Motivation

“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.” This line from the movie Fight Club reflects letting go of attachments to achieve freedom and clarity. NLP emphasizes the importance of mental flexibility and overcoming fears to unlock potential.

This Week’s Winning Post

Revive Yourself with Rest

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Mehernosh Randeria

NLP Master Trainer and Coach

The past week has been a truly satisfying start to the New Year 2025. Some of the highlights of the first 10 days of 2025 have been:

• An amazing completion of a 14 day online cohort program called “High Impact Performer” where 40 participants were able to precisely understand and implement the secret ingredients of becoming High Impact Performers. The way the performers expressed their aha moments and the way they implemented the learnings were actually the real aha moments for me.
• The Design Your Year (DYY) which was launched as an online program in Dec 2024 took off with its first offline version for 2025 with a dynamic group of business heads in Kolkata famously known as the Corporate Connections, who began their 2025 on the right note by designing their Best Year Ever.
• The Thoughtful Calendar, a brainchild nurtured since long, saw the light of the day with an amazing welcome from you all. The first week of January was actively occupied in the logistical aspects of ensuring smooth delivery of all the orders received. The process included certain hiccups and learnings about having the right kind of reliable delivery partners. And with orders still flowing in, the system is now set on auto-pilot mode.
• Completion of my second Masters. While the earlier one was 15 years ago as Masters in Financial Management, this time it has been in a seemingly opposite field, viz. Masters in Psychology. Integrating Psychology, NLP and Coaching is going to be an exciting journey of learning and transformation ahead.
• Testing new technology platforms and integrations, where few of you would have actually received last Saturday’s newsletter just yesterday (Friday). The learning curve has been interesting, and I personally apologise for the delay. Good part of it is you received 2 newsletters this week. Yayyy!!!
• Thoughtful Thoughts has been another new launch in 2025 with short videos (reels) about some truly impactful quotes from my book Thoughtfully Yours. The nudge for these series has come from all the readers of Thoughtfully Yours who would reach out to me, asking to share my perspective on the thought-provoking quotes in the book. Thank you for the nudge.

Well, I guess my excitement of sharing with you has made the updates itself lengthier than the usual length of this newsletter. But then that is the power of the community and the sharing (check out today’s One Minute NLP below). So now lets dive into this week’s NLP Around You. 

Thoughtful Thought

“Troubles double when you are stuck in a negative bubble.” – Dr Mehernosh J Randeria

NLP Quote Corner

“You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few actually do what they know.” – Tony Robbins

One Minute NLP – Excitement of Sharing

Excitement is contagious, isn’t it? Think of the rush you feel when you share a victory — a promotion, a personal milestone, or a breakthrough — and your community celebrates with you. That same excitement can also come from sharing your vulnerabilities, like opening up about a struggle you’ve overcome.

In NLP, we recognise the power of connection. Sharing your highs and lows with those who matter creates deeper bonds. It turns mere acquaintances into allies and builds a sense of belonging. The act of sharing amplifies joy and transforms challenges into moments of growth, not just for you but for everyone listening.

So, the next time you achieve something or navigate a tough time, share it. Let excitement be your bridge to authentic, meaningful relationships. Together, you rise higher.

Meta Magic – The Real Picture of Peace

Once the world’s largest art museum announced a painting competition to depict peace, the news spread like wildfire. Artists from every corner of the globe eagerly picked up their brushes. It was as if the entire world had been splashed with vibrant colors, with creativity bursting forth like a garden in full bloom.

When the winner was revealed, the world gasped in disbelief. Among countless paintings showcasing serene landscapes, a radiant sun glowing warmly, blossoms blooming in soft hues, lush green fields basking in light the winning piece was nothing like the others. It showed a furious tornado tearing through the land, leaving destruction in its wake.

Shocked and confused, the painters crowded around the jury, demanding an explanation. “Surely there’s been a mistake!” one exclaimed with a nervous laugh. “This painting has no trace of peace. It’s pure chaos.”

The head judge smiled gently. “No mistake has been made. This choice was deliberate and thoughtful. Perhaps you overlooked the heart of the painting.”

The artists fell silent as the judge pointed to the canvas. “Look closely. Beyond the swirling storm, there’s a small hut. Inside, an old man gazes out of his window. His face is calm, untouched by the raging winds outside. True peace isn’t the absence of chaos. It’s the stillness within, even as the storm rages around you.”

My question- What does your picture of peace look like?

Hook From The Book

“All my life I wanted to be somebody. Now I realise I should have been more specific.” ― The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks Than Others Do in 12 Months

Movie Motivation

“Win a no-win situation by rewriting the rules.” This line by Harvey Specter from the series SUITS highlights the power of reframing and creative problem-solving. By changing the perspective or approach to a challenge, it’s possible to discover new solutions that weren’t previously visible.

This Week’s Winning Post

The Way You See The World is The Way You Shape Your Future

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In case you would like to recommend these to your loved ones or your team members:

– Join the 5 Day Design Your Year (DYY) Challenge coming up again from 13th to 17th Jan 2025.

– Gift the most treasured Thoughtful Calendar before the Special Launch offer expires.

– A special 7 day Clutter Cutter Challenge organised only for Writernaama members. Curious about Writernaama? Please reach out to its Founder Heena M Shrivastava for details.

– Stay tuned for an exciting announcement of an offline in-person training coming up in February (more details in next week’s newsletter).

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Thoughtfully yours,

Mehernosh Randeria